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The continuing mystery of the extreme exposure lifestyle
One of the first things you learn when dealing with unusual sexualities is not to judge how other people enjoy their pleasures; if it is consensual and it doesn’t cause distress to anyone, to each their own. This notwithstanding, some erotic practices are admittedly...
Japanese bondage stats porn: this is the world of kinbaku
Kinbaku, meaning Japanese-style bondage, undoubtedly is among the geekiest variations in the already pretty geeky world of kink. The mere technique and skills involved in attaining a good-looking – and possibly safe – tie require lots of studies, so it is no surprise...
VIP Interview With Ayzad – A Sex Scholar!
This interview was originally published on Adultsmart Adultsmart - I'd like to thank you for agreeing to do this interview. As mentioned, I actually have come across your website a few times, and one of my favourite things are the posts of "Inexplicable moments...
Don’t buy it! Terrible sex toys for Christmas 2018 – Part 2
Welcome to the second and final – for the moment – part of my latest collection of truly terrible sex toys I have found for sale on the Web. Don’t forget to check out Part 1 if you haven’t yet, and good luck finding the perfect Christmas hate gift for that frenemy in...
Don’t buy it! Terrible sex toys for Christmas 2018 – Part 1
How very forgetful of me. While I was distracted, I let the awful sex toys folder fill up with unpublished links, depriving you (and all the websites that just swipe and repackage it uncredited) of my very irregular Don’t buy it! feature. Everything is pretty...
Power tech strikes back – The Hot Octopuss cockrings road test
You know I only review technologically innovative sex toys, and knowing this the Hot Octopuss guys sent over a couple of new products that picked my curiosity. A little primer is required to understand their uniqueness, though.A cockring is… well, pretty much anything...
The failed mad scientist – Why do we do BDSM?
At the end of a recent lecture about BDSM, a sexology Ph.D. student approached me to ask a few in-depth questions, including a true evergreen: «so in the end everything stems from childhood traumas, doesn’t it?»Faced with such a query, many psychologists would answer...
On the soul-crushing shallowness of kink forums
I often claim that studying kink is a neverending process, and that I keep learning new things about it despite having been researching and practicing it for over thirty years now – and I often receive politely bemused smirks in response. «Everything there is to know...
Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies – It’s simple, really… or not?
Arousal - The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies Michael Bader St. Martin's Griffin $40 304 pages Language: English ASIN: 0312302428 Isbn: 978-0312302429 @: buy it online One of the most frequent questions encountered when dealing with alternative sexualities is: «how...
The ass science behind a cheeky trend
Sometimes, dealing with unusual sexualities requires a sociological or ethnographic approach, or at least a feel for the pulse of the trends surrounding us. This week, for example, was marked by a series of rather peculiar news. Let’s quickly review them…Here in Italy...
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