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When I am asked why submitting to pain is fun, I usually provide a quick-and-dirty simplification of the so-called “endorphin ecstasy”, or “subspace”. It goes like this: sexual arousal increases the thresholds for pain and stress. When your organism experiences enough...
You know how these things go. There I was, minding my coaching business, when I received an email that basically said: «Hi! I’m a fan and the greatest expert on chastity devices. I just created the best ever, wanna see it?» Of course I wanted to know more. But, maybe...
Those of you who follow my site will have noticed how I frequently return to the observation that even the world of unusual eros is subject to fads and trends - and how these often appear more evident in the BDSM scene, which is inherently characterized by taking...
We all have our ups and downs. I, for one, recently received an email from someone who rediscovered me last week after following me back when I was still writing extreme erotic stories (I stopped about 25 years ago). «I've seen your videos,» she wrote among other...
I have thought long and hard how to best give this announcement; how to describe something minuscule within the context of an epochal event such as the SARS-CoV-2 pandemic, yet very important for the well-being of thousands of people with uncommon sexual inclinations....
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