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The Japanese bondage encyclopedia

The Japanese bondage encyclopedia

Let me reveal an almost-secret of mine: I don’t like bondage. Or rather, I don’t appreciate the way it is usually practiced – with a lack of any particular eroticism, and obsessiveley repeating the same three or four figures – pretty ones, admittedly – for social...

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Beware of the impending obscurantism

Beware of the impending obscurantism

I have read quite a few books on sex and sexuality. One of the most interesting remains Julie Peakman's The Pleasure's all Mine, which retraces the history of “deviancies” while uncovering many surprising information - such as the social acceptance of cross-dressing...

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The unsettling fascination of MILF Manor

The unsettling fascination of MILF Manor

Let’s start with some much-needed context. Amazon Prime Video has a new reality show up, called MILF Manor. ‘MILF’, should you be so naïve as not to know, stands for ‘Mother I’d Like to Fuck’ – and the protagonists indeed are eight women, 44 to 60-years old, in...

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Apocalyptic fetishisms and bellyhappy mommies

Apocalyptic fetishisms and bellyhappy mommies

A – smaller than you think – part of my job as an atypical sexualities scholar consists of analyzing the developments in pornography. Porn does provably and clearly reflects the zeitgeist: the Seventies of the century past were characterized by pseudo-intellectual and...

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A tale of pasta and rice

A tale of pasta and rice

I ended up in a queue with L’Omino, who among his many artistic endeavors also wrote a book called Tinder’s List, about his dating misadventures. While talking, I recalled a very brief chapter I really loved – and that he graciously authorized me to translate and...

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