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Kink and neurodivergence – Interview with Rodolfo Pessina

Kink and neurodivergence – Interview with Rodolfo Pessina

Have you also had the impression that lately there seem to be a lot of ADHD, autism, OCD, and so on diagnoses popping up in the kink sphere? Certainly, the greater attention paid to mental health recently is also a cause, but when the frequency of cases reaches such...

Kink coaching – confusion and predators

Kink coaching – confusion and predators

Illustration by PandaScimmia The field of alternative sexualities is subjected – just like any other – to trends that are generally temporary, typically self-important, and usually harmless. Just to make an example: for a few years now, prostitutes who exchange...

Wax play 101

Wax play 101

Certain “extreme” erotic games are actually within everyone's reach, as in the case of wax play (simply put, stimulating passion using hot wax, usually from a candle). It all depends on knowing how to prevent the most common accidents... and knowing one trick so you...

Consent, expounded

Consent, expounded

Consent is at the core of any form of eroticism: the world of sex positivity rightly talks about it all the time, but are you sure you know what it really means? Things are a bit more complicated than just saying 'yes', and knowing how to properly handle them can...

Fragile Monsters

Fragile Monsters

«Master, what is the secret of the universe?» The weathered sage holds his inspired silence for a moment, observing the glide of a dragonfly over the Zen garden. Then he whispers: «When you are hungry, it is better to eat.» Profound truths do this, sounding like...

Tantric Sex: The Most Erotic Scam in the World

Tantric Sex: The Most Erotic Scam in the World

Many people believe that tantra is an ancient Indian erotic technique that leads to hours of sex and mystical orgasms. Well, that's not true... but orgasms are definitely involved! Here's a guide to avoid being fooled and become a guru in no time.   What is...

Show me – the world of exhibitionism

Show me – the world of exhibitionism

Talking about ‘exhibitionism’ there is a risk - as with many other sex-related things - of serious misunderstandings. One word actually refers to both a crime and a potentially very fun erotic game that has nothing to do with it... or almost nothing. Let's see why....

Leather Culture, explained

Leather Culture, explained

When talking about BDSM, someone always mentions ‘the Old Guard’ - often referring to it as ‘Leather culture’, especially in the United States. It is usually to reminisce of how «things used to be different and much better back then»... but are we really sure about...

The Japanese bondage encyclopedia

The Japanese bondage encyclopedia

Let me reveal an almost-secret of mine: I don’t like bondage. Or rather, I don’t appreciate the way it is usually practiced – with a lack of any particular eroticism, and obsessiveley repeating the same three or four figures – pretty ones, admittedly – for social...

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