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World Cage – Making chastity safe (and an interview)

World Cage – Making chastity safe (and an interview)

You know how these things go. There I was, minding my coaching business, when I received an email that basically said: «Hi! I’m a fan and the greatest expert on chastity devices. I just created the best ever, wanna see it?» Of course I wanted to know more. But, maybe...

The sense of Norway for unusual sexualities

The sense of Norway for unusual sexualities

A few days ago I attended the LGBTQ+ Tourism European Estates General, an event with very important implications punctually ignored by the hordes of “activists” who claim to be oh so committed to the advancement of equality rights. Too bad for them, because they would...

Stop posturing as an alpha male

Stop posturing as an alpha male

Those of you who follow my site will have noticed how I frequently return to the observation that even the world of unusual eros is subject to fads and trends - and how these often appear more evident in the BDSM scene, which is inherently characterized by taking...

Are you BDSM enough?

Are you BDSM enough?

We all have our ups and downs. I, for one, recently received an email from someone who rediscovered me last week after following me back when I was still writing extreme erotic stories (I stopped about 25 years ago). «I've seen your videos,» she wrote among other...

The changing education to kink

The changing education to kink

The less public and yet maybe more important part of my job consists in lecturing at two specialization courses in sexology and one in criminology. The students are mental health professionals, doctors, jurists and police wishing to correctly understand and manage...

Apocalyptic fetishisms and bellyhappy mommies

Apocalyptic fetishisms and bellyhappy mommies

A – smaller than you think – part of my job as an atypical sexualities scholar consists of analyzing the developments in pornography. Porn does provably and clearly reflects the zeitgeist: the Seventies of the century past were characterized by pseudo-intellectual and...

A tale of pasta and rice

A tale of pasta and rice

I ended up in a queue with L’Omino, who among his many artistic endeavors also wrote a book called Tinder’s List, about his dating misadventures. While talking, I recalled a very brief chapter I really loved – and that he graciously authorized me to translate and...

Unusual sex dangers: a survival manual

Unusual sex dangers: a survival manual

Once upon a time, about forty years ago, there was the Great Mystery of Alternative Sexualities. Most of the world was still coming to terms with revolutionary concepts such as the contraceptive pill, feminism, open homosexuality, divorce or gender transition. If on...

Unusual sex toys: the good and the bad

Unusual sex toys: the good and the bad

Occasionally, one of my articles rouses more discussions than others. That was the case, for example, of the one where I suggested to leverage the power of the Web to buy kinky sex toys at ultra-affordable prices. Although I specified how the reasoning only referred...

Kinky events are back!

Kinky events are back!

I have thought long and hard how to best give this announcement; how to describe something minuscule within the context of an epochal event such as the SARS-CoV-2 pandemic, yet very important for the well-being of thousands of people with uncommon sexual inclinations....

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