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Kinky events are back!

Kinky events are back!

I have thought long and hard how to best give this announcement; how to describe something minuscule within the context of an epochal event such as the SARS-CoV-2 pandemic, yet very important for the well-being of thousands of people with uncommon sexual inclinations....

I Love BDSM reviewed by Of Sex and Love

I Love BDSM reviewed by Of Sex and Love

By Adriana Ravenlust, originally posted on Of Sex and Love   From my experiences with Ayzad’s books, I would struggle to adequately do him justice as an author. I jumped into the deep end with the first book I read by him BDSM: A Guide for Explorers of Extreme...

Erotic utopias and the mindboggling case of St. Bride’s

Erotic utopias and the mindboggling case of St. Bride’s

In the study of unusual sexualities, erotic utopias are one of the more curious phenomena. Every now and then, circumstances allow for some enterprising person to take their fantasies beyond their bedroom and, more importantly, beyond the little spare time allowed by...

Next – How sexuality changes after pandemics

Next – How sexuality changes after pandemics

So I followed the hype and ended up on Clubhouse too, with all its mystique of invitations, “voice only” and genuine relationship with people. If we exclude the fact that 99% of the time the “genuine people” are there to discuss how to better monetize the new social...

Have you ever considered porn?

Have you ever considered porn?

No, the title is not a proposition - and indeed, if you know me at all, you'll know that I'm not much of a supporter of the pornography industry. Those who surely don’t are those rather confused interviewers, who often contact me to ask my opinion on some sparsely...

Humiliation as pleasure

Humiliation as pleasure

You might have seen a rather popular joke popping up in your social network feeds: ‘Your fetishes are nothing to be ashamed about. Unless your fetish is being humiliated, then you should be very ashamed, you nasty little pervert!’ People usually laugh and move on; I...

Your problem with feminism, simply explained

Your problem with feminism, simply explained

One of the most debated topics during the last year was “feminism”. I am writing it in quotes since actually there isn’t even an agreement on what this word precisely means, as proven by the numerous holy wars unleashed from every direction based on personal...

I Love BDSM reviewed by Of Sex and Love

The international editions of I Love BDSM are out!

As you may have guessed from the picture above, in the last few months I have been working hard on getting the English and Spanish language editions of my other best-selling BDSM manual published. I Love BDSM is an entry-level guide meant to disabuse anyone newly...

Sex positivity is broken and it’s up to us to fix it

Sex positivity is broken and it’s up to us to fix it

A few days ago the Italian edition of Vanity Fair asked me to write an article about fetishisms that opened once and for all the proverbial Pandora’s vase. What I observed was, in a pinch, that real fetishists – those whose lives suffer due to the obsession for the...

In conversation with Ayzad – Deepinox (2020)

In conversation with Ayzad – Deepinox (2020)

This interview was originally published on Deepinox   Class 1969, Ayzad is a pioneer in the Italian BDSM scene. Newbies and experts alike stumbled at least once in his first work, BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, originally published in 2004 and...

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