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The biggest research on sexual fantasies and taboos
A major limitation of atypical sexuality studies is the survey sample - that is, the people who answer the researchers' questions. The first problem is selection, because differently from other fields, one cannot stop people on the street or phone them at random to...
Kink and autism – Interview with John Pendal
Isn’t it amazing when you find out that one of the most remarkable comedians out there turned to be a kink coach like you? What’s even more peculiar is checking out his website… and discover that he also found out to be autistic, which in turn gave him lots of...
The unspoken reassurance of chronophilias
Photo - Actress Edwige Fenech, in a movie still from the Italian "aunties genre" One of the many unexpected side effects of the global pivot to the internet, circa 1990, was to introduce the world to tagging. What had been just a librarian’s wet dream thus far become...
The true power of kink – Interview with Auntie Vice
Auntie Vice, a kink educator I had just a passing familiarity with, had a problem: the guest of her upcoming podcast episode had stood her up. So I did what any respectable cis-het man does and jumped to the rescue – too late, it turns out. Yet we had struck a...
All about endorphins in kink – Interview with Hermes Solenzol
When I am asked why submitting to pain is fun, I usually provide a quick-and-dirty simplification of the so-called “endorphin ecstasy”, or “subspace”. It goes like this: sexual arousal increases the thresholds for pain and stress. When your organism experiences enough...
World Cage – Making chastity safe (and an interview)
You know how these things go. There I was, minding my coaching business, when I received an email that basically said: «Hi! I’m a fan and the greatest expert on chastity devices. I just created the best ever, wanna see it?» Of course I wanted to know more. But, maybe...
The sense of Norway for unusual sexualities
A few days ago I attended the LGBTQ+ Tourism European Estates General, an event with very important implications punctually ignored by the hordes of “activists” who claim to be oh so committed to the advancement of equality rights. Too bad for them, because they would...
Stop posturing as an alpha male
Those of you who follow my site will have noticed how I frequently return to the observation that even the world of unusual eros is subject to fads and trends - and how these often appear more evident in the BDSM scene, which is inherently characterized by taking...
Are you BDSM enough?
We all have our ups and downs. I, for one, recently received an email from someone who rediscovered me last week after following me back when I was still writing extreme erotic stories (I stopped about 25 years ago). «I've seen your videos,» she wrote among other...
The changing education to kink
The less public and yet maybe more important part of my job consists in lecturing at two specialization courses in sexology and one in criminology. The students are mental health professionals, doctors, jurists and police wishing to correctly understand and manage...
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