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Travel notes from a sex-positive festival
Crunch time can hit in the most inappropriate occasions, and this is one of them. I am under looming deadlines for so many extra-complex projects right now that I just don’t have the time to write the in-depth articles queuing up in my to-do list… nor a full report...
If you want something done right… – Interviewing the Making of Love authors
Have you heard about Making of Love? You probably stumbled upon it online, as the subject of several cookie-cutter articles that boil down to: ‘Eight Italian high schoolers are crowdfunding a documentary about a new concept for sex ed, which they want to bring to...
Look at those fucking persons, for real – The Butterfly Effect review
Last week I mentioned a work by one of my writing heroes, the consistently amazing Jon Ronson of Them and The Men who Stare at Goats fame. The Butterfly Effect is not a book but a podcast, so I had criminally overlooked it although it was released two years ago....
Bondage tutorial – Matanawa, tying up the crotch
It looks like you really liked my previous bondage tutorial, so without further ado here is another. This is also from my book BDSM – A guide for explorers of extreme eroticism: it is called 'matanawa', meaning 'rope on the crotch', and my female readers are going to...
Bondage tutorial – Munenawa, tying up the chest
Yesterday I was rebuked for my admittedly sparse coverage of bondage, which represents the very first letter in the BDSM acronym after all. Let me atone with a mini-tutorial from my book BDSM - A guide for explorers of extreme eroticism: this is the simplest version...
Bespoke erotic videos and destroyed encyclopedias – Interview with Mick from Fetishcustom
I so love coincidences! I had just finished listening to Butterfly effect - a Jon Ronson podcast we’ll soon get back to – about, among many other things, custom erotic videos. In a nutshell: online streaming porn killed the “adult movies” industry, driving directors...
Of course they had to do it. Here’s the first ASMR song.
It looks like ASMR got quite a long way from its slipstream debut about five years ago. The current fad of calling any slight preference “a fetish” made the admittedly weird Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response phenomenon an odd beast indeed: while a pretty small...
Adriatico News – Interview with Ayzad
This interview was originally published on Adriatico News, introduced by my bio. Interview by Maurizio Donini Good morning Ayzad, why do you define yourself as a reformed journalist?I admit that’s in part a joke. By a much larger part it is true,...
How to buy your BDSM gear saving 90% of the cost
After publishing my article about the changes in Hamburg sex shops, several people asked me to elaborate on the matter. Their recurring question was: as of today, where would you recommend buying BDSM or fetish gear, should I want anything a tad more uncommon than...
Postcards from Hamburg – The changing world of kink
A traditional Italian saying goes: ‘Spend Christmas with your family, and Easter with whoever you want’. This year, in my case it wasn’t really a matter of who but of where – I enjoyed a great vacation in Hamburg, which is one of my favorite places in the world. Thing...
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