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Between Coronavirus anxiety and the longing to return to our kinky spaces: interview with Ayzad
This article was originally published on Melania Mieli – L’altra da me After months of seclusion and abstinence due to the lockdown, going back to our play, communication, creativity and affectional exploration spaces can be a cause for doubts and fears. To get...
This is the original Pride
Are you enjoying your local Pride celebrations? I hope you are having a fabulous time - and I'd like to use this opportunity to show you how it all started in the Seventies. The below video is a testimony of the early Gay Pride parades of San Francisco. Oh, how much...
The art of (good) BDSM
I have been recently asked – for the millionth time – what BDSM is. So I repeated the answer I reached after decades of study and practice: «extreme eroticism is the art of making yourself vulnerable». It sounds good, it’s elegant and it is even true. But maybe it is...
BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19
Talking about this earlier would have been pointless: the shock was still fresh, the information confusing… I don’t know about you, but I needed some time to gather my ideas – and I already know that they are going to probably change again over the next weeks. Still,...
Jeandel’s secret ropes
A few days ago, bondage teacher La Quarta Corda, whom I often collaborate with, asked me whether I could translate into English a brief article he wrote that «truly is Ayzadian stuff», in his words. In exchange, I got permission to publish it here too… Charles...
There is a new femdom party in town: Freedomina!
Step into any – real or virtual – place where BDSM is discussed, and you can safely bet that in a matter of hours someone will start again on a subject I’ve been seeing people fret about for thirty years at the least: «why it is so difficult to find a dominatrix who...
Three hours and a half of odd sex podcasts ready for your listening pleasure
Remember when I said I was dabbling with podcasts? Well, now I have completed that tentative experience, and I am back to more customary (at least for me) activities. The experiment went great, though, so I’ll probably return behind the microphone sooner or later. In...
Gooning – As metaporn as it gets
It cannot be helped. No matter how many studies have proved that pornography – at least the non-sociopathic kind – to be harmless, we all remain victims of the puritanical façade that characterizes contemporary society. Sex keeps being seen as obscene, literally...
Perverse panic – The piqueur legacy
December 1819: the Sûreté Nationale helmed by Vidocq, the infamous former criminal turned chief detective thanks to the efficacy of his unorthodox techniques, marks another victory. The prostitutes enlisted as baits on the gas-lit boulevards of Paris worked as hoped,...
Snuff: porn for a hopeless world
The last piece of the puzzle – actually a mere formal confirmation of what everyone already had imagined – came a few weeks ago in the form of a forensic report. Twenty-one-years old support teacher and moonlighting camgirl Hope Barden death wasn’t just an...
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