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Chastity play – The complete guide to having fun without pleasure
A long time ago, when this website still was a little creepy-black HTML monster, its most-read article was a sponsored post about male chastity – or anti-erection devices to be precise. I deleted it more than a decade past and I actually had forgotten about its...
Sexual explorers: who they are and what they do – Vanity Fair interview with Ayzad (2020)
This article was originally published by Vanity Fair. The term defines those aiming for an unconventional, creative eroticism. We discussed it with Ayzad: writer, sex blogger, alternative sexualities expert and author of a true «Sexual Explorers Manifesto », in...
Lashes & cuddles: A peculiar evening
This article was originally published by BizzarroBazar: the party he is referring to is Sadistique, the event I have been organizing each month for fifteen years in Milan. My deepest thanks to Ivan for such a fine and thoughtful testimony of a place which is...
Another kind of professional domination – Interview with Master Giacon
I have been studying the universe of unusual eroticism for many years, and yet there is a group of its denizens I never wrote about – mostly because they are so rare as to be considered almost legendary. They are the male professional dominators, who can be counted on...
Sexbots and giraffes
Several weeks ago, while still in full pre-apocalyptic lockdown, I have been invited to participate in a discussion about sexbots. The Privacy Network organizers also called Maurizio Balistreri, a moral philosophy professor and author of a book about the complicated...
Between Coronavirus anxiety and the longing to return to our kinky spaces: interview with Ayzad
This article was originally published on Melania Mieli – L’altra da me After months of seclusion and abstinence due to the lockdown, going back to our play, communication, creativity and affectional exploration spaces can be a cause for doubts and fears. To get...
This is the original Pride
Are you enjoying your local Pride celebrations? I hope you are having a fabulous time - and I'd like to use this opportunity to show you how it all started in the Seventies. The below video is a testimony of the early Gay Pride parades of San Francisco. Oh, how much...
The art of (good) BDSM
I have been recently asked – for the millionth time – what BDSM is. So I repeated the answer I reached after decades of study and practice: «extreme eroticism is the art of making yourself vulnerable». It sounds good, it’s elegant and it is even true. But maybe it is...
BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19
Talking about this earlier would have been pointless: the shock was still fresh, the information confusing… I don’t know about you, but I needed some time to gather my ideas – and I already know that they are going to probably change again over the next weeks. Still,...
Jeandel’s secret ropes
A few days ago, bondage teacher La Quarta Corda, whom I often collaborate with, asked me whether I could translate into English a brief article he wrote that «truly is Ayzadian stuff», in his words. In exchange, I got permission to publish it here too… Charles...
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