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Sex positivity is broken and it’s up to us to fix it
A few days ago the Italian edition of Vanity Fair asked me to write an article about fetishisms that opened once and for all the proverbial Pandora’s vase. What I observed was, in a pinch, that real fetishists – those whose lives suffer due to the obsession for the...
In conversation with Ayzad – Deepinox (2020)
This interview was originally published on Deepinox Class 1969, Ayzad is a pioneer in the Italian BDSM scene. Newbies and experts alike stumbled at least once in his first work, BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, originally published in 2004 and...
Don’t buy it! – Pandemic Fall Special
Has it really so much time passed since the last overview of the most awful and misguided sex toys ever conceived? I better keep the tradition going, so here is another instalment featuring the newest stuff – this time of an especially pernicious nature. Let’s start...
Re-educating the BDSM world – Interview with Lily Dupont
So it came to pass that, with one of the worst James Bond themes looping in my head, I accepted an invitation to visit Golden Whip, a curious place in Milan advertised as a – ahem – very well-equipped BDSM-themed photo studio. Surprise: it really is pretty stocked up...
How to live the privilege of kink
I was recently rebuked for promoting «an expensive idea of sex, only available to exceptionally affluent people». The person who said this is, of course, an idiot. Specifically, he was under the mistaken impression that BDSM can only be experienced in secret as a...
Chastity play – The complete guide to having fun without pleasure
A long time ago, when this website still was a little creepy-black HTML monster, its most-read article was a sponsored post about male chastity – or anti-erection devices to be precise. I deleted it more than a decade past and I actually had forgotten about its...
Sexual explorers: who they are and what they do – Vanity Fair interview with Ayzad (2020)
This article was originally published by Vanity Fair. The term defines those aiming for an unconventional, creative eroticism. We discussed it with Ayzad: writer, sex blogger, alternative sexualities expert and author of a true «Sexual Explorers Manifesto », in...
Lashes & cuddles: A peculiar evening
This article was originally published by BizzarroBazar: the party he is referring to is Sadistique, the event I have been organizing each month for fifteen years in Milan. My deepest thanks to Ivan for such a fine and thoughtful testimony of a place which is...
Another kind of professional domination – Interview with Master Giacon
I have been studying the universe of unusual eroticism for many years, and yet there is a group of its denizens I never wrote about – mostly because they are so rare as to be considered almost legendary. They are the male professional dominators, who can be counted on...
Sexbots and giraffes
Several weeks ago, while still in full pre-apocalyptic lockdown, I have been invited to participate in a discussion about sexbots. The Privacy Network organizers also called Maurizio Balistreri, a moral philosophy professor and author of a book about the complicated...
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4 May 2025 h. 15:00-20:00
Sadistique
Nautilus Club, Milano
18 May 2025 h. 15:00-20:00
Freedomina
Nautilus Club, Milano
1 Jun 2025 h. 15:00-20:00
Sadistique
Nautilus Club, Milano
15 Jun 2025 h. 15:00-20:00
Freedomina
Nautilus Club, Milano
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