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Next – How sexuality changes after pandemics
So I followed the hype and ended up on Clubhouse too, with all its mystique of invitations, “voice only” and genuine relationship with people. If we exclude the fact that 99% of the time the “genuine people” are there to discuss how to better monetize the new social...
Have you ever considered porn?
No, the title is not a proposition - and indeed, if you know me at all, you'll know that I'm not much of a supporter of the pornography industry. Those who surely don’t are those rather confused interviewers, who often contact me to ask my opinion on some sparsely...
Humiliation as pleasure
You might have seen a rather popular joke popping up in your social network feeds: ‘Your fetishes are nothing to be ashamed about. Unless your fetish is being humiliated, then you should be very ashamed, you nasty little pervert!’ People usually laugh and move on; I...
Your problem with feminism, simply explained
One of the most debated topics during the last year was “feminism”. I am writing it in quotes since actually there isn’t even an agreement on what this word precisely means, as proven by the numerous holy wars unleashed from every direction based on personal...
The international editions of I Love BDSM are out!
As you may have guessed from the picture above, in the last few months I have been working hard on getting the English and Spanish language editions of my other best-selling BDSM manual published. I Love BDSM is an entry-level guide meant to disabuse anyone newly...
Sex positivity is broken and it’s up to us to fix it
A few days ago the Italian edition of Vanity Fair asked me to write an article about fetishisms that opened once and for all the proverbial Pandora’s vase. What I observed was, in a pinch, that real fetishists – those whose lives suffer due to the obsession for the...
In conversation with Ayzad – Deepinox (2020)
This interview was originally published on Deepinox Class 1969, Ayzad is a pioneer in the Italian BDSM scene. Newbies and experts alike stumbled at least once in his first work, BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, originally published in 2004 and...
Don’t buy it! – Pandemic Fall Special
Has it really so much time passed since the last overview of the most awful and misguided sex toys ever conceived? I better keep the tradition going, so here is another instalment featuring the newest stuff – this time of an especially pernicious nature. Let’s start...
Re-educating the BDSM world – Interview with Lily Dupont
So it came to pass that, with one of the worst James Bond themes looping in my head, I accepted an invitation to visit Golden Whip, a curious place in Milan advertised as a – ahem – very well-equipped BDSM-themed photo studio. Surprise: it really is pretty stocked up...
How to live the privilege of kink
I was recently rebuked for promoting «an expensive idea of sex, only available to exceptionally affluent people». The person who said this is, of course, an idiot. Specifically, he was under the mistaken impression that BDSM can only be experienced in secret as a...
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