With St. Valentine’s Day closing in, I thought this was the proper time for a friendly reminder of what it is really about. This archived article seems to be a perennial favorite.

Also, I just suggested my Italian readers to gift their partners with my appropriately-named book I Love BDSM – but unfortunately it is not available in English yet. You can however do even better with BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, the ultimate book on the subject and a great couples’ read!