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Facing our mythical sexuality – Interview with Galen Fous
Non-normative sexualities – what we usually call just ‘kink’ – are pretty common but also insufficiently studied. Even something as almost-mainstream such as BDSM, for example, has been the subject of very little research. Even if things are slowly changing for the...
Reaching for divinity – Why do dominants do BDSM anyway?
BDSM, like every complex subject, cannot be truly explained unless you disassemble its many, highly varied facets and analyze them separately before trying to make sense of the whole. Such approach makes it easier to understand the real reasons behind some admittedly...
Charles Guyette, Godfather of American Fetish Art – See where passions can get you
Charles Guyette, Godfather of American Fetish Art Richard Pérez Seves FetHistory $9.99 174 pages Language: English ASIN: 1973773775 Isbn: 978-1973773771 @: buy it online How can you not root for passionate underdogs? Take Richard Pérez Seves, the author of this and...
The honest guide to finding the master of your dreams
Writing this article was more complicated than usual – and surely harder than the previous one, in which I suggested erotically submissive men the best strategies to win the heart of a dominatrix. In fact, when I closed it announcing the inevitable integration for...
Valentine Day is almost here
With St. Valentine's Day closing in, I thought this was the proper time for a friendly reminder of what it is really about. This archived article seems to be a perennial favorite.Also, I just suggested my Italian readers to gift their partners with my...
The honest guide to finding the mistress of your dreams
I launched this website in July 2003, after years of activity as a peon user on a number of BDSM-related websites. I have since become a personal coach helping people overcome their kinky issues, but even back then there was one question I was asked over and over and...
Sex blogging and BDSM – The Ayzad interview
This article was originally published on SexWriting. When you think of a sex blog and of BDSM the sole, immediate thought association is with Ayzad. A reformed journalist, a BDSM expert for over twenty years, author, extreme eroticism scholar and an organizer of...
Darker – The only review you need
No.Seriously, that's all you need to know about yet another rehash of the middle part of the Fifty Shades of Grey bore. Yes, it's from his point of view, like the last time. Yes, it is as stupid as it originally was.Look, if you really fancy BDSM and for some puzzling...
Erotic hypnosis – The game you really cannot play
The field of unusual sex is subjected, like any other, to fads and fashions. That is due in part to the tendency to always seek out novelties typical of curious people, partly to imitation and partly to the misguided but frequent one-upmanship of newcomers who somehow...
Become a Sexual Explorer and make the world better!
A new year is beginning. This is a fitting time for resolutions and for gift-giving, so here is my biggest resolution so far, offered as a gift to anyone who’ll want to join on a great adventure. In the course of a lifetime there are moments in which...
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