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Weird sex shopping, winter collection 2012

Weird sex shopping, winter collection 2012

Newspapers and websites worldwide are trembling in faux-shock for the “unexpected” news about the upcoming 50 shades of Grey-branded sex toy line. The admittedly stylish bunch of items includes blandly named ‘massage wands’ and Inner goddessben-wa balls, and will...

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Please take note: your fetish does not exist

Please take note: your fetish does not exist

Between 1948 and 1953 the first, famous Kinsey reports turned most ideas about sexuality upside down through the simplest and most overlooked trick available to researchers: they actually asked common people what they liked, instead of building whole theories on a...

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Discovering your personal erotic myth

Discovering your personal erotic myth

I dare to guess that most of my readers already know what BDSM is about: not the saccharine-laden psychosis of 50 shades of Grey, nor the violent abuse so frequently depicted by online porn and misinformed media. Done right, this kind of sexuality is often quite...

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Fantasy, reality and BDSM contracts

Fantasy, reality and BDSM contracts

In these days the Italian BDSM Scene is fibrillating due to some very 50 shad-ish news which are confirming what I pointed out in my review of James’ book. Details are still a bit fuzzy thanks to the shining professionalism of Italian media, but the heart of the story...

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How to create an erotic best seller: The Diamond Club

How to create an erotic best seller: The Diamond Club

Ok, sure. We all know Fifty shades of Grey already. But did you read The Diamond Club, the new erotic best seller which immediately rocketed to the lead of the iTunes sales charts? You know, the Patricia Harkins-Bradley book, the one with the elegant and mysterious...

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Classic literature was just a bunch of BDSM stories

Classic literature was just a bunch of BDSM stories

I guess we should have seen it coming. Remember how four years ago the hipster crowd raved about that “literary reimagining” called Pride, prejudice and zombies? That book spawned a whole series of stories injecting popular tropes into stuffy (and copyright-free)...

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