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In conversation with Ayzad – Deepinox (2020)

In conversation with Ayzad – Deepinox (2020)

This interview was originally published on Deepinox   Class 1969, Ayzad is a pioneer in the Italian BDSM scene. Newbies and experts alike stumbled at least once in his first work, BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, originally published in 2004 and...

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Don’t buy it! – Pandemic Fall Special

Don’t buy it! – Pandemic Fall Special

Has it really so much time passed since the last overview of the most awful and misguided sex toys ever conceived? I better keep the tradition going, so here is another instalment featuring the newest stuff – this time of an especially pernicious nature. Let’s start...

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Re-educating the BDSM world – Interview with Lily Dupont

Re-educating the BDSM world – Interview with Lily Dupont

So it came to pass that, with one of the worst James Bond themes looping in my head, I accepted an invitation to visit Golden Whip, a curious place in Milan advertised as a – ahem – very well-equipped BDSM-themed photo studio. Surprise: it really is pretty stocked up...

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How to live the privilege of kink

How to live the privilege of kink

I was recently rebuked for promoting «an expensive idea of sex, only available to exceptionally affluent people». The person who said this is, of course, an idiot. Specifically, he was under the mistaken impression that BDSM can only be experienced in secret as a...

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