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The BDSM party dress code

The BDSM party dress code

This coming Sunday sees another appointment with Sadistique, the BDSM party I organize each month in Milano. Looking at the calendar I noticed that this will be the 120th edition, yet just like for the very first one I am already receiving desperate messages from...

My new book is out! Meet The Mistress

My new book is out! Meet The Mistress

If you can read Italian, this is the time to enjoy a real treat. My new ebook, titled La Padrona (meaning ‘The Mistress ') is finally out after many years of embargo by the family of the titular character. As you can read – in English – in the official page of the...

Foodporn backstage

Foodporn backstage

Here in Italy, today is pasquetta, the “small Easter” holiday during which you traditionally take a breather from the family Easter pigout… by having a hearty picnic or restaurant lunch with your friends. Chalk it up to a binge-induced stupor if I chose this day to...

The story behind Finland’s gay stamps

The story behind Finland’s gay stamps

Stamps collecting isn’t exactly among the first topics that come to mind when you talk about unusual sexualities, yet everybody seems to have been discussing just that in the last few days. Posti, the Finnish postal service, has announced that among the subjects of...

There is more than meets the eye in bubble porn

There is more than meets the eye in bubble porn

Do you recognize the above picture? That’s a still frame from a video that became viral in the last few days, titled Bubble porn. You can find it attached below, but to get a better idea of what it is all about you probably want to check out this picture first:Yup,...

The new Hana to hebi promises a BDSM revolution

The new Hana to hebi promises a BDSM revolution

Japan produces an astounding quantity of porn (54,000 videos in 2012 alone), yet recently the attention of every kinkster in the land of the Rising Sun has been focused on one upcoming movie. While Hana to hebi Zero (lit. ‘Flower and snake 0’) - to be released on May...

The first sex-related April’s fool joke of 2014 arrives early

The first sex-related April’s fool joke of 2014 arrives early

April is almost here, and the now traditional sex-related fool jokes have started appearing early this year. The problem is, of course, that the media are taking the bait hook, line and sinker as always – because for “serious” people sex is weird by definition, so...

Androidism wasn’t supposed to be like this

Androidism wasn’t supposed to be like this

The word androidism was specifically conceived to define sexual attraction to humanoid robots, also known by the acronym ‘ASFR’ (for alt.sex.fetish.robots, a now defunct online discussion group that first popularized the concept). Before that, however, experts already...

Stopping homophobia saves your own wallet

Stopping homophobia saves your own wallet

Is there any doubt that fearing LGBT people is bad? After all it doesn’t take a genius to understand that, when people prefer suicide to being discriminated against, the hate toward non-normative sexualities must be stopped. But of course my readers already agree with...

Latex fashion goes Japanese (maybe)

Latex fashion goes Japanese (maybe)

I may be Milanese and thus osmotically infused with a keen fashion sense, yet I fail to grasp the connection between the latest Torture Garden clothing latex collection – titled Jorogumo – and the characters of traditional Japanese legends it supposedly takes its...

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