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Deleuze and other bigwigs I don’t give a fuck about (plus one you should)
Having spent all these years studying unusual sexualities and BDSM in particular, I feel qualified to say that I really heard them all. From the girl with basic questions about vaginal vs. clitoral orgasm, to the pseudo-necrophiliac lady asking me where to buy a...
Rubber men and interiorized autophobia
The latest media sensation of Great Britain is The Gimp Man of Essex, a mysterious guy appearing all over the namesake county north-east of London… clad in black rubber from head to toe. The habit of calling full-body latex ensembles ‘gimp suits’ comes from the 1994...
The dollhouse is coming
Did you catch the Channel 4 documentary Secrets of the living dolls? First aired in January, it showed the mainstream public the very closeted community of female maskers, men (and a precious few women) who enjoy dressing up as females. Not just using make up and...
Daring to follow a different map
Crossing the line Serialfetishist & slave M 2014 $ 41.87 203 pages Language: English @: buy it online One of the biggest revolutions in sex happened almost forty years ago, when sane and happy kinksters worldwide began using a new word when talking about their...
50 shades of Grey Vs. BDSM – Reclaiming the great beauty
Yesterday saw the release of the 50 shades of Grey movie trailer. The only one to realize were bottom-feeding journalists (like the one who cleverly noted how it «had fetish undertones». You don’t say?), the few chicklitters still remembering how they wore out their...
Tolerance 101, the South Park way
Perv - The sexual deviant in all of us Jesse Bering Random House, 2014 $ 14.78 289 pages Language: English ASIN: B00FVXJX86 Isbn: 78-0374534837 @: buy it online When the South Park movie came out I was dragged by my friends to see it, as I thought that series’ humor...
3D genitals, art and censorship in Japan
If I asked you who the kinkiest people in the world is, there is a strong probability you’d name the Japanese (Germans make a close call, but they tend to be more discreet in their filth and not as infamous). Japan is, after all, the land where every other girl...
Smashing your balls with a brick: the weird art of tie dang gong
Last week a news video from China has been posted and reposted endlessly online thanks to its WTFactor. In it, retired railwayman Zhou Chengli demonstrates his daily training routine: he goes to the local park, flexes his muscles, stretches, use the publicly available...
More than a game: Coming out simulator
If you are still pondering the very XX-centurish question of «can video games be art?» it is now time to move on. In fact, games can even be a great way to explore sexuality. In the past I have written about this already, but I think I’ve stumbled on something so...
Don’t buy it! Summer mix – A guide to the most terrifying sex toys of this season (Part 2)
Welcome back to Don’t buy it!, my collection of the world’s most pernicious sex toys. We ended Part 1 in Japan, the country of nonsensical sex acts, giant robots and – of course – of… Anime characters vibrators - $65 …of Hello Kitty, obviously, whose fame in Tokyo is...
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