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BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism – The Kayla Lords review
This review was originally published on Kayla Lords' website. I owe Ayzad, the author of BDSM — A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism a massive apology. He sent me a review copy of his book back in 2016, and I’ve only now read it. I have zero excuses other...
How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator – No such thing as a free lunch
How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator Amberly Rothfield Self-published Free, or $15.99 on paper 362 pages Language: English ASIN: B0798H4S5X @: buy it online Through the years and my travels I built an opinion about sex work. I might be mistaken, but I...
Forever proud
This Saturday I will take part in the Milano Pride parade, an event I have always had some doubts about. I am part of those many Italians who don’t cherish farces made – maybe a little less nowadays, but yet – of ostrich feathers and provocations bordering on...
We really have to talk about peak bondage
A few weeks ago I went to Bologna to sit in the jury of the Bizzarro Film Festival, a funny event which also was an excuse to meet some friends and go to a couple of kinky parties. That is how I stumbled on three famed riggers (meaning: bondage experts) among the...
Coming out kinky: more questions than answers
No, of course ‘Ayzad’ isn’t the name I was given at birth. It is a nom de plume, a pseudonym, a nickname from the past century, when privacy was approached in an entirely different way. Choosing your own name – and in the end your whole identity – is a self-affirming...
BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism: the Sex Machines Reviews’ lowdown
This review was originally published by Joanne's Sex Machine and Sex Toy Reviews This is one book that I will keep referring toI don't often review books, but this one caught my eye when I was approached by the author Ayzad. Well, it's a guide that covers almost...
Traumatizing readers for fun – Interview with Samuel Spano, author of Nine Stones
Remember my fanboy-ish applause for Sunstone, the graphic novel I loved for its realistic and positive approach to the reality of BDSM? A couple of months ago I also met its evil twin: a perfect nemesis that negates everything that work represented. Nine Stones too is...
Let’s get polytical – Interview with Monica Preziuso
Depending on your media diet, polyamory is anything from «the future of relationships» to «the harbinger of the end for all civilization» or, of course, «just another passing fad». After well over a decade in such a relationship, for me it is just… quite normal,...
The importance of being Leather – Interview with Fabrizio Paoletti, Mr. Leather Italy 2017
Here in Italy, the word ‘leatherman’ is more likely to be misinterpreted as the name of a talk-show host than associated with the culture that gave rise to the sex positive movement. Learned people might remember Tom of Finland and the aesthetic that stereotyped...
Interview with AhhSi – Ayzad, BDSM and the “deliverance from the yoke of mundane”
This interview was originally published by AhhSi It is hard to talk about the Italian BDSM scene without mentioning him. AhhSi had the pleasure of chatting with Ayzad.You may have stumbled on his name in a bookstore even if you aren’t into extreme sex. But if you...
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