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The dark crimes of sadomasochistic cinema
Last weekend I watched Dark Crimes, a mediocre detective movie inspired by a much more interesting true case. The story is set in a terribly dreary Krakow, where a similarly dreary policeman is convinced of having found the culprit of a cold homicide case and goes...
Books make you smarter (and sexier too)
It is an odd week here at the Ayzad Manor: my time was eaten up by a thousand tasks that left me unable to write the customary amazing weekly post. Fortunately for you, however, this translates into a great opportunity to check out either my archives, my book, or one...
The mystery of the girl in the cake
So you are attending a bachelor party. A huge cardboard cake is wheeled in, everyone gathers around it, and… yeah, you know how it continues, of course. In fact, you do because the “stripper in the pop-out cake” gag is a veritable cliché – and often a pretty sad one....
Philosofisting – Peter Banki and the art of asking all the hard questions
Most interviews are – if you allow me the dirty metaphor – like brief affairs: you meet someone you fancy, you go through a nice, pleasant routine of discovering what the person is really about, you both say all the right things, and you leave satisfied and without...
Come and meet the Italian kinksters. In extreme detail.
Back in March 2018, www.ayzad.com was chosen as the Italian partner site for an ongoing research project by American doctor Galen Fous about personal erotic myths as the possible source of all kinky fantasies. My fellow countrypersons can click a special link to...
BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism reviewed by Adult Industry Unlocked
So BDSM - A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism turned out to be a hit also with the kink-savvy host of Adult Industry Unlocked, who especially praised its completeness and its tone. Don't take my word about that: here is the video to prove it!
The Compendium of Rubber Garment Making – How to become a latex designer (or philosopher)
The Compendium of Rubber Garment Making Catasta Charisma Self-published £ 60 668 pages Language: English @: buy it online The Compendium of Rubber Garment Making is, beyond any doubt, the best book ever about creating latex clothing, and then some. In fact, it does...
Let’s get the furry story straight
After publishing last week’s article about pet play I received several puzzled emails. Not so much about the post itself, but due to one of its links dedicated to a very complicated and absurd story about the world of furries – a story I have no wish to revisit...
Pet play – How to take a real vacation (even from yourself)
Truly countless forms of sexuality exist around us. If you want proof of that, browse the over 1,000 articles published on this very website since 2003, and you will find no mention of pet play – meaning those erotic games where one partner takes on the role of an...
A Lover’s Pinch: A Cultural History of Sadomasochism – See true research at work
A Lover’s Pinch - A Cultural History of Sadomasochism Peter Tupper Rowman & Littlefield Publishers $36 344 pages Language: English ASIN: B07CJPRF6H Isbn: 978-1538111178 @: buy it online Let me say this straight away, so as to dispel any doubt: my opinion about A...
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