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The night the BDSM community just had enough of it

The night the BDSM community just had enough of it

If you are like most persons out there, BDSM is just one among many genres on your favorite “Tube” website, or the punchline to some godawful 50 Shades joke. If you are among the ten percent of people who actually enjoy erotic domination and submission games, it is a...

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Wanna stop the next massacre? Just fuck. And study.

Wanna stop the next massacre? Just fuck. And study.

Yesterday a 29-years old US citizen of Afghan origin drove 125 miles from his hometown to Orlando, FL, to attack the patrons of a gay club. He killed 50 of them and wounded 53 more, then got shot by a SWAT team before he could detonate a bomb. This is the story you...

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Eros, porn, art and mass media – The Ayzad interview

Eros, porn, art and mass media – The Ayzad interview

I am occasionally quoted in graduation theses touching the topic of alternative sexualities, or which are entirely focused on that subject. Usually it’s just simple excerpts from my books, but sometimes I am asked specific questions or get a full interview. In these...

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The most important thing I learned about kink

The most important thing I learned about kink

  Just a couple of hours ago one of my coaching clients asked me what is probably the best question ever: «What is the most important thing you learned in your thirty years of doing BDSM?». A question so good I had to struggle to find a simple answer. I wrote...

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The best movies from the Fetish Film Festival in Kiel

The best movies from the Fetish Film Festival in Kiel

Today in Kiel, Germany, the seventh edition of the Fetisch Film Festival brings back one of the few events worldwide dedicated to feature-length movies, shorts and documentaries about the fetish world. Its approach is definitely more cultural than pornographic and, in...

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The new Hana to hebi promises a BDSM revolution

The new Hana to hebi promises a BDSM revolution

Japan produces an astounding quantity of porn (54,000 videos in 2012 alone), yet recently the attention of every kinkster in the land of the Rising Sun has been focused on one upcoming movie. While Hana to hebi Zero (lit. ‘Flower and snake 0’) - to be released on May...

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Do you enjoy BDSM? Just don’t call it the god’s will

Do you enjoy BDSM? Just don’t call it the god’s will

One book about submission has set the passion of Spaniards aflame – and it is not another BDSM trilogy. Maybe. And to be precise, it is not a Spanish book either.Cásate y sé sumisa by Costanza Miriano, a television journalist specializing in women’s issues, began life...

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The great scandal of dirty ebooks

The great scandal of dirty ebooks

In the last couple of weeks the world of publishing was deeply shaken by a weird, unexpected scandal. It all began when the rather yellow online tabloid The kernel went for the kill with an article exposing how Amazon «cashes in on filth». The writer had searched the...

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