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If you are like most persons out there, BDSM is just one among many genres on your favorite “Tube” website, or the punchline to some godawful 50 Shades joke. If you are among the ten percent of people who actually enjoy erotic domination and submission games, it is a...
Yesterday a 29-years old US citizen of Afghan origin drove 125 miles from his hometown to Orlando, FL, to attack the patrons of a gay club. He killed 50 of them and wounded 53 more, then got shot by a SWAT team before he could detonate a bomb. This is the story you...
This article was originally written for Bizzarro Bazar I spent the last few days surrounded by people in tears. Which was to be expected, since the setting was the largest BDSM convention in Europe. The surprising part, in fact, was the reason of their crying –...
I am occasionally quoted in graduation theses touching the topic of alternative sexualities, or which are entirely focused on that subject. Usually it’s just simple excerpts from my books, but sometimes I am asked specific questions or get a full interview. In these...
Just a couple of hours ago one of my coaching clients asked me what is probably the best question ever: «What is the most important thing you learned in your thirty years of doing BDSM?». A question so good I had to struggle to find a simple answer. I wrote...
What you see above is one of the “outrageous” billboards which have appeared in Rimini, Italy, a few days ago. They are a creation of controversial artist Maurizio Cattelan commissioned by the municipality to celebrate the fading spirit of the city, the epitome...
Today in Kiel, Germany, the seventh edition of the Fetisch Film Festival brings back one of the few events worldwide dedicated to feature-length movies, shorts and documentaries about the fetish world. Its approach is definitely more cultural than pornographic and, in...
Japan produces an astounding quantity of porn (54,000 videos in 2012 alone), yet recently the attention of every kinkster in the land of the Rising Sun has been focused on one upcoming movie. While Hana to hebi Zero (lit. ‘Flower and snake 0’) - to be released on May...
One book about submission has set the passion of Spaniards aflame – and it is not another BDSM trilogy. Maybe. And to be precise, it is not a Spanish book either.Cásate y sé sumisa by Costanza Miriano, a television journalist specializing in women’s issues, began life...
In the last couple of weeks the world of publishing was deeply shaken by a weird, unexpected scandal. It all began when the rather yellow online tabloid The kernel went for the kill with an article exposing how Amazon «cashes in on filth». The writer had searched the...
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