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Fragile Monsters

Fragile Monsters

«Master, what is the secret of the universe?» The weathered sage holds his inspired silence for a moment, observing the glide of a dragonfly over the Zen garden. Then he whispers: «When you are hungry, it is better to eat.» Profound truths do this, sounding like...

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The art of (good) BDSM

The art of (good) BDSM

I have been recently asked – for the millionth time – what BDSM is. So I repeated the answer I reached after decades of study and practice: «extreme eroticism is the art of making yourself vulnerable». It sounds good, it’s elegant and it is even true. But maybe it is...

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Let’s ditch aftercare already (as it is commonly done)

Let’s ditch aftercare already (as it is commonly done)

In a comment on my Facebook page, I was scolded by a reader who remarked how I never really write about aftercare in BDSM. She was right: I don’t – but for a very sensible reason. But before discussing that, let’s get everybody on the same page with a quick...

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The BDSM party dress code

The BDSM party dress code

This coming Sunday sees another appointment with Sadistique, the BDSM party I organize each month in Milano. Looking at the calendar I noticed that this will be the 120th edition, yet just like for the very first one I am already receiving desperate messages from...

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Safewords: are you sure you know all about them?

Safewords: are you sure you know all about them?

Some time ago Radaaria (the webmistress of the Italian BDSM website Legami) and I talked about the confusion reigning over even basic subjects like safewords. In the end, in the commendable spirit of  «if you don’t like something, instead of complaining you should...

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