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The dominant’s manual
As you can guess from yesterday’s post about electroplay technique, being the dominant partner in a BDSM relationship is more complex than it looks. Just mastering the many possible practices may require years of effort… and that’s the easiest part anyway, which you...
How to get electrocuted like a pro
Yesterday I had to counsel a young man who – with much embarrassment and pain – confessed he had damaged his own genitals by overenthusiastically using an electric BDSM toy. I am not a physician, so I could only direct him to a specialist and hope his lesions were not...
Latex, the final frontier
I still remember the first rubber fetish video I saw, way back when dinosaurs roamed the neighborhood. It was a grainy VHS tape of… scuba divers. Divers wearing and getting out of thick neoprene suits, shot by some weird peeping tom who edited the scenes in a creepy...
Robot porn is a philosophical quote
Yesterday I asked what the future of sex might be, and… I still don’t know, sorry. I know, however, what the future of porn will like – because I saw it, and you will too. But a brief prior explanation is required to understand what is going to appear on your...
Identify your sexual future
I love Arse elektronika. As I wrote a few months ago, it’s about the only place to go to learn about the future of sex and eroticism – and the best by far. Today’s news is just to inform you that monochrom, the organization behind the event, has a call out for...
Hunting the bicycle rapist
Vehicles come up worringly often in the study of paraphilias. Siderodromophilia, in example, is the inordinate attraction for having sex on or around trains, and many people admit to have sexual encounters with cars. No, not in cars, but with: some of them just go...
Rise and shine (for real)
Yeah, I know. It’s a Monday… And judging from the access statistics for www.ayzad.com, you are still struggling to get up to speed after another hideous match with your alarm clock. This is precisely why I was amazed when I learned of one of those inventions so...
Exodus leader admits “gay cure” is violent, useless
Today’s news could be expanded into several books discussing all its cultural, ethical, political, religious and financial implication. That would be pointless, however, since you surely already have a definite opinion on all of the above – and given the polarization...
This vibrator features… what?
Vibrators have gone a long way, both from their unsettling origins and from the bland/creepy items that populated sex shops in the twentieth century. Now they are designers’ territory, with funny, high-tech or plain ostentatious toys – but sometimes they are just...
Witness the rise of male lingerie
Among the many reasons mentioned by transvetites for their passion, one of the most frequent is the wish to enjoy the delicate feelings of feminine beauty products and garments on their skin, and to “dress pretty”. The rise of metrosexual fashion was a very welcome...
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