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Grown-up businesses don’t deny sexuality
You probably know by now my distaste for the disconnection between sex and everyday life. One worrying effect of the prevalent cultural approach towards sexuality is to consider anything sex-related as a sort of hidden chapter in our existence, something to be ashamed...
Would you have sex with me?
No, not with me – I’m fine, thanks. But this simple question was the key element of a semi-serious field experiment I have been wanting to show you for a while now. It goes like this: a nice-looking person goes on a walk, asking other people of the opposite sex...
Travel tips: the boobs shrine
It’s been quite a long time since my last travel tip. I’d never want you to grow lazy and fat, so get off your chairs and visit the Aichi prefecture of Japan, where you will find the sacred Ryūon-ji, a temple dedicated to Kannon, the Buddha of mercy. It is a beautiful...
Do you enjoy BDSM? Just don’t call it the god’s will
One book about submission has set the passion of Spaniards aflame – and it is not another BDSM trilogy. Maybe. And to be precise, it is not a Spanish book either.Cásate y sé sumisa by Costanza Miriano, a television journalist specializing in women’s issues, began life...
The super-sex toy for men
To be a man in the world of sex can feel like getting shortchanged sometimes. Sure, generally speaking everything is built to fulfill mostly male fantasies… but there are areas where women get all the fun. Take sex toys, in example. Unless you are a fan of anal...
The intersex revolution of Germany introduces many issues
For two weeks now newborn babies in Germany have been exempted from gender registration. In other words, hospitals and parents are not obliged to declare the sex of the child, leaving the classic ‘M/F’ box blank. This is the second country in the world to officially...
343 scoundrels, many moralists and the French prostitutes
To say that this post is about unusual sex is a bit of a stretch, since today’s topic is prostitution – which may not really be «the oldest job in the world» as aphorisms say, but sure gets close and is a normal part of our society. I’m writing about it because the...
BDSM, the Chinese way
If you think you have seen it all when it comes to unusual erotica, one blog I just discovered could make you reconsider. Chinakunbang, subtitled ‘Chinese jail and bondage culture’ sure is different – at least to our western eyes. Born at the online intersection...
Pheromone parties smell fishy
Remember the pheromone parties craze of 2012? Me neither, don’t worry about it. What happened was that all of a sudden the media went gaga over the improbable and slightly gross fad of matchmaking events based on the sense of smell – or something like it. The news was...
Indie doc clears up the whole Bettie Page story
My story with Bettie Page goes quite a way back: earlier than my articles about her shocking life, earlier than the stage play I wrote about her infamous trial, and earlier than my conferences about her cultural meaning for feminism and the social discourse on...
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