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What are the best kinky movies of 2015?
Every year I promise myself I will attend the Fetish Film Festival in Kiel, Germany – and every single year something happens preventing me to. Which is a real shame, since its program is always very good and full of interesting surprises, as you may remember from my...
Don’t buy it! special – Autumn/Winter collection 2015
Peeking in the folder where I save the most embarrassing products I stumble on during my online searches, I realized I had collected enough oddities for a new post for Don’t buy it! – the series where I present the best of the worst sex toys. If you haven’t read the...
Of Star Wars, magic and jaded kinksters
So the new Star Wars trailer appeared online, and I watched it along with hundreds of millions of people. And, like so many of them, I felt so moved that my eyes welled up with tears – but not as much as it happened with the heart-tugging commercial for the upcoming...
The most important thing I learned about kink
Just a couple of hours ago one of my coaching clients asked me what is probably the best question ever: «What is the most important thing you learned in your thirty years of doing BDSM?». A question so good I had to struggle to find a simple answer. I wrote...
Old gods die hard
I normally don’t republish material written by other people here. I’m making an exception because Guy Baldwin’s direct experience allowed him to describe the so-called Old Guard with a competence that, not having lived in the early ’70 USA, I could never match....
Listen to Polari, the secret gay language of old
I wrote about Polari in the past, most notably here. In a nutshell, it was a rather complex slang used by British outcasts since the Nineteenth century, including gays before homosexuality was eventually ruled legal in 1967. Today it has almost completely disappeared,...
Greetings from Rimini – The interview about advertising, art and extreme sex
What you see above is one of the “outrageous” billboards which have appeared in Rimini, Italy, a few days ago. They are a creation of controversial artist Maurizio Cattelan commissioned by the municipality to celebrate the fading spirit of the city, the epitome...
Grey – The peer review
Grey E.L. James Vintage $7.93 576 pages Language: English Isbn: 1101946342 @: buy it online Grey is, as you surely know, the inevitable sequel of Fifty shades of Grey. Shamelessly created to feed a 125-million (not counting those pirated online) copies business, it...
How to laugh off Christian Grey and actually enjoy a BDSM relationship
When my latest book - titled I love BDSM and unfortunately not available in English yet - was published last week, I was rather surprised by the prevalent reaction among both reviewers and readers alike. One of the most frequent comment to my beginners’ guide to...
What is primal sex? An interview with Bydarra
Eroticism is an art, and like any art form it has its fads. The last few years, in example are marked by several trends of which 50 shades of Grey-inspired BDSM is but the most popular. One that took me by surprise is primal play, a type of rough sex born out of many...
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