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The Playrooms – History of the boudoir, form pre-history to the age of high tech sex
Sometimes people ask me what does an unusual sexuality expert actually do – besides having heaps of fun, that is – and they are a bit perplexed when I start ranting about semantics, sociology and the need for a broader education to sexuality. But the short answer is:...
Paladin of clitorises (and famous vibrators): interview with Gia Balestra
You may have noticed that it I rarely write about sex toys on www.ayzad.com. Sure, from time to time I enjoy presenting the weirdest ones in my Don’t buy it! series, but I am generally more interested in different aspects than a mundane review, such as their design....
A spoonful of prejudice helps the medicine go down
An advantage of my specialization with unusual sex is how I can leave serious sexologists to deal with the kind of evergreen tragedies fueling the profession: arousal and orgasm problems, pregnancy-related issues and erectile dysfunctions. How incredibly cooler is it...
BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism reviewed by Cara Sutra
Originally posted by Delilahxx, Pleasure Panel reviewer for Cara Sutra Many thanks to Cara for sending me BDSM: A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, by Ayzad to review. I consider myself a beginner in BDSM, have tried a few things, but there is still lots...
The hidden dangers of clinical play – in the words of a pro
A few weeks ago during a party in Bologna I held a micro-lecture from my Master class series about the use of chemicals and pharmaceuticals for BDSM play. At the end of the talk I was approached by a girl who, thanks to her nurse studies, pointed out an inaccuracy in...
The great magical sex swindle: debunking fake tantrism
The history of sexuality is an immensely vast topic full of surprises. Throughout the centuries, different cultures interpreted it in just as many different ways, influenced by unexpected factors such as technological development, climate, politics and medicine. We...
BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism reviewed by Deviance & Desire
By Mastermarc, originally posted on Deviance & Desire A famous bon mot of “America’s sexologist” Ruth Westheimer goes: “The most important sex organ lies between your ears.” This is also where BDSM originates: from the realization that the apex of eroticism...
BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism reviewed by Of Sex and Love
By Adriana Ravenlust, originally posted on Of Sex and Love One of my goals this year was to read more, and I’m poised to finish about three dozen books by the end of 2016, which is a number with which I am quite happy. Few of these books are “assigned” reading...
The sour case of the Italian shaming-induced suicide of an exhibitionist
I admit that, when the news flash appeared on my screen, I couldn’t immediately realize its significance. ‘Tiziana Cantone killed herself’, it said, but given how the newsfeeds are but an endless and anesthetizing barrage of assorted deaths and tragedies my gut...
Profession of ropes – Interview with Andrea Ropes
Every time you watch an erotic video, attend a large BDSM party, read a website like mine or follow a workshop about one of the hundreds of practices around which the kink world revolves, it is easy to forget that all of that is the result of lots of work. Behind...
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