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Techniques of Pleasure – Bad research and great insights
Techniques of Pleasure - BDSM and the Circuits of Sexuality Margot Weiss Duke University Press $26.89 336 pages Language: English ASIN: 0822351595 Isbn: 978-0822351597 @: buy it online Stop me if you heard this one, but growing up you should really learn to take a...
Catfishing – Interview with Alberto Caputo about very dangerous liaisons
My job as a personal coach helping people solve their unusual sexualities issues often brings me face to face with pretty curious situations. Sometimes funny, other times messy or baffling – and occasionally fitting some recurring phenomena.Let’s examine the case of a...
Better Bondage for Every Body – Making it work for the rest of us
Better Bondage for Every Body Evie Vane et al. Createspace $ 34.95 204 pages Language: English ASIN: 153315211X @: buy it online Evie Vane is one among the two dozen billion rope bottoms in the global BDSM scene. She also is, however, one of the few who set getting...
Beyond any limit – Unraveling the mystery of Farrel, the most extreme kink artist ever
When I get interviewed I make no secret of how my first attraction to BDSM-like imagery came from a source as silly as the bondage-laden Penelope Pitstop episodes when I was but a very small kid. If you peruse my website you can then find the ridiculous story of my...
What are we talking about when we talk about BDSM
Last week’s post about the philosophy of aftercare was remarkably successful on the various social networks, earning lots of enthusiastic comments I am very grateful for. Then there were the criticisms. Fortunately they were not that numerous, but almost all of them...
Let’s ditch aftercare already (as it is commonly done)
In a comment on my Facebook page, I was scolded by a reader who remarked how I never really write about aftercare in BDSM. She was right: I don’t – but for a very sensible reason. But before discussing that, let’s get everybody on the same page with a quick...
Movies, eroticism and prejudices – The Undercover Mistress case
If you have never heard about Undercover Mistress you are in good company. I didn’t know anything about this Italian short movie myself until I stumbled on a brief article where its authors lamented the strange reactions their work unleashed among the juries of...
Welcome to the post-post-post-postmodern world, where online wars are waged against Nazi furverts
How was your Easter weekend? Mine was spent swimming in surrealism, as I tried to unravel the Nazi furries scandal that erupted after a convention for people wearing full-body animal costumes (for ostensibly sex-related purposes) was canceled due to death threats,...
Polyamory? “Don’t call it open couple”, the Ayzad interview
This interview was originally published by MySecretCase It is incredible how certain topics only come up during dinner. Bowels dysfunctions, if you are unlucky. Or polygamy and “braingasms” if you are very very lucky. Indeed, talking with Ayzad, personal coach and...
Sunstone is the cure for all the awful BDSM erotica out there
Kinksters may well be the most diverse people you’ll ever find, each one with their unique combination of personal preferences in the wonderfully vast field of BDSM, yet there is one fact they will wholeheartedly agree on: 50 Shades of Grey is afwul. It is badly...
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