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How to find your BDSM tutors
I got a phone call from a lovely friend who asked me for suggestions about a reliable teacher for play suturing – that is, sewing up sensitive body parts in a BDSM setting. My answer didn’t exactly thrill her. «But I am in Genoa and she lives in Israel!» she observed....
In memoriam of Hugh Hefner – What nobody will tell you about the last of the romantics
Note – This article was originally commissioned for publication in half an hour by Wired. I included Google Translate links to those resources missing a proper English language translation. Talk about professional deformation. When I was informed about Hugh Hefner’s...
The limits of kink
Last week my post about taking a stand against so-called “financial domination” caused a veritable stir. Many people applauded it, some deliberately distorted and criticized it in order to protect their – apparently rather unreliable, if one post is enough to endanger...
The problem with financial domination
Researching the wide, wild world of unusual sexualities involves lots of online searching. I actually love how this exposes me to a plethora of eccentric characters, from genius thinkers and heroic activists to flat-out crank cases. Once or twice a year, however, I...
Kinky lives – My interview with Il Piccole Magazine
This interview was originally published on Il Piccole Magazine Are you tired of living sex without much fantasy? Do you want to discover something that goes beyond the simple, sometimes predictable foreplay and to make your erotic life more intriguing? If you...
Don’t buy it! 2017 summer special – Part 3
Here we are again, ready to discover another dozen of the most awful sex toys I recently stumbled upon. I promise this is the final installment of this article – but if you fancy this topic I suggest you to also check out the first and the second part, not to mention...
Don’t buy it! 2017 summer special – Part 2
Welcome to the second part of the overview on the most recent horrible sex toys available, with a special focus on those produced in Japan. If you are joining me just now, you can find the first part here and here the archive of the previous editions. Footlong...
Don’t buy it! 2017 summer special – Part 1
My most faithful readers know that among my questionable habits there also is that of saving in a special folder the links to the most bewildering sex toys I encounter in my study of unusual sexualities. When there is enough of them I then share the horror in a series...
The smut lover’s guide to why you should stop paying for porn
Let’s talk about porn, politics and hypocrisy. Stay with me, and I promise you’ll get a bunch of fun, filthy links at the end.It all started a few days ago, when I was heavily criticized for three lines in my 570-plus pages magnum opus on BDSM – which were...
Realizing our cool oddity – The Xplore Roma 2017 review
I’ll let you on a secret. When I was invited to bring my Kink and Transcendence talk to Xplore Roma I accepted more out of a taste for adventure than else. My perplexity derived in part from past organization issues with the management, but mostly from how the event...
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