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Thinking Myself Off – The guide to realize you are not a monster
Thinking Myself Off Leandra Vane Leandra Vane $12 197 pages Language: English ASIN: 1978413068 Isbn: 978-1978413061 @: buy it online Imagine an anti-porn crusader, a person so scared of her own sexuality that as a teenager she literally hid in a closet just to think...

The day LinkedIn walled me out, and other stories of blind discrimination
Between writing, research, my personal coaching activity, teaching and a bit of all-important quality time, I am usually rather busy. This – and a healthy disdain for inane arguments – is why I don’t give much importance to online social networks in my life, with one...

Piston powered pleasures – The Hot Octopuss toys review (and designer interview)
Remember when I told you that original sex toys are too few to make reviewing them interesting? Well, guess who made a fool of himself – the Hot Octopuss guys from London promptly sent me not one, but two technically unique items for me to test. And, lo and behold, I...

Making sex bright again on World AIDS day
So, how do you like the future so far? As I get closer and closer to being half a century old, it is inevitable for me to compare my daily reality to what we all expected “the year 2000” to be. Man, how remote that seemed like – and yet that magical number just...

Exploring the odd – The chat/interview with BizzarroBazar’s Ivan Cenzi
Ivan Cenzi is the soul of BizzarroBazar, a wonderful website that tries to understand the world by its oddest aspects – just like I do with Ayzad.com. The main difference is that he is much more poetic than me and he doesn’t specialize in unusual sexualities but in...

La Dyvina – The Ayzad interview
This interview was originally published on SexGoods. La Dyvina is a very well-known radio personality, hosting sex-related shows on various major Italian radios like Radio Deejay and M2O. She also runs the SexGoods website, where she needed a hand with the more...

Thanks to you, Ayzad joins the Sex Bloggers Superheroes league (again)
The results for the Kinkly 2017 Sex Bloggers Superheroes Awards are out, celebrating the best online educators, authors, journalists and generic cool people writing about sex-related things. Thanks to your kind votes - and a bit of math magic involving backlinks,...

#MeToo thinks this time things could really change
Note – I have been conflicted about how to present this article, which was originally written for an Italian audience and references a number of local events. At first I wanted to adapt its content for a global readership, but a number of people suggested to keep it...

Sona – the hi-tech sex toy that works too well
I’ll let you on a secret about 99% of the dildos and vibrating sex toys reviews: they are totally worthless. The reason is that 99% of such objects only differ in their shape, reducing the whole matter to finding the ones that best fit one’s personal features – the...

Here’s why we need kink educators (but elsewhere)
I generally love my job, but sometimes it gets so frustrating… Last week, for example, was dotted with exasperating incidents that however flowed together to reveal one rather big and uncomfortable truth.It all started, as it often happens with annoyances, on an...
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