The biggest fetish parties in Italy ever

When – 2007-2011

Where – Milan

Key features – Strict dress code; international performers; fetish fashion shows

After the successful experiment with Black Ball proved that Italy too was hungry for proper fetish parties, the owners of a very elegant adult club in Milan contacted me to create the greatest such event ever for them. The result was called Secret Fetish Party, and tit was anything but secret: in fact, it remains to this day the largest fetish party in the Italian history, with guests attending from all over Europe to flaunt their most transgressive look.

This strictly dress code night was held once or twice a year in Milano, choosing each time a different and intriguing location. Far removed from the vulgarity and chaos of common clubs, the party combined music, fetish art exhibitions and fashion shows, performances and photographic sets with famous specialized artists.

Unfortunately, everything must end sooner or later. First those club owners retired, leaving me alone to shoulder the organization and management of that beast of a show, with just the occasional help of a series of on-and-off enthusiasts. Then the fetish fad dwindled down. Finally, the last Secret Fetish Party happened on the night of one of the most severe snow storms recorded in Italy, making it an unexpectedly sorry affair. I didn’t have the heart nor the strength to revive it after that.

I would lie if I told you that I don’t dream of bringing the party back one day. For now, however, the memories in the below video will have to suffice. If you never visited the Secret Fetish Party, here’s what you’ve been missing out…