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Don’t buy it! special – Autumn/Winter collection 2015

Don’t buy it! special – Autumn/Winter collection 2015

Peeking in the folder where I save the most embarrassing products I stumble on during my online searches, I realized I had collected enough oddities for a new post for Don’t buy it! – the series where I present the best of the worst sex toys. If you haven’t read the...

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Of Star Wars, magic and jaded kinksters

Of Star Wars, magic and jaded kinksters

So the new Star Wars trailer appeared online, and I watched it along with hundreds of millions of people. And, like so many of them, I felt so moved that my eyes welled up with tears – but not as much as it happened with the heart-tugging commercial for the upcoming...

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The most important thing I learned about kink

The most important thing I learned about kink

  Just a couple of hours ago one of my coaching clients asked me what is probably the best question ever: «What is the most important thing you learned in your thirty years of doing BDSM?». A question so good I had to struggle to find a simple answer. I wrote...

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Old gods die hard

Old gods die hard

I normally don’t republish material written by other people here. I’m making an exception because Guy Baldwin’s direct experience allowed him to describe the so-called Old Guard with a competence that, not having lived in the early ’70 USA, I could never match....

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Listen to Polari, the secret gay language of old

Listen to Polari, the secret gay language of old

I wrote about Polari in the past, most notably here. In a nutshell, it was a rather complex slang used by British outcasts since the Nineteenth century, including gays before homosexuality was eventually ruled legal in 1967. Today it has almost completely disappeared,...

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