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This is the original Pride

This is the original Pride

Are you enjoying your local Pride celebrations? I hope you are having a fabulous time - and I'd like to use this opportunity to show you how it all started in the Seventies. The below video is a testimony of the early Gay Pride parades of San Francisco. Oh, how much...

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The art of (good) BDSM

The art of (good) BDSM

I have been recently asked – for the millionth time – what BDSM is. So I repeated the answer I reached after decades of study and practice: «extreme eroticism is the art of making yourself vulnerable». It sounds good, it’s elegant and it is even true. But maybe it is...

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BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19

BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19

Talking about this earlier would have been pointless: the shock was still fresh, the information confusing… I don’t know about you, but I needed some time to gather my ideas – and I already know that they are going to probably change again over the next weeks. Still,...

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Jeandel’s secret ropes

Jeandel’s secret ropes

A few days ago, bondage teacher La Quarta Corda, whom I often collaborate with, asked me whether I could translate into English a brief article he wrote that «truly is Ayzadian stuff», in his words. In exchange, I got permission to publish it here too… Charles...

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There is a new femdom party in town: Freedomina!

There is a new femdom party in town: Freedomina!

Step into any – real or virtual – place where BDSM is discussed, and you can safely bet that in a matter of hours someone will start again on a subject I’ve been seeing people fret about for thirty years at the least: «why it is so difficult to find a dominatrix who...

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