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Humiliation as pleasure

Humiliation as pleasure

You might have seen a rather popular joke popping up in your social network feeds: ‘Your fetishes are nothing to be ashamed about. Unless your fetish is being humiliated, then you should be very ashamed, you nasty little pervert!’ People usually laugh and move on; I...

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Your problem with feminism, simply explained

Your problem with feminism, simply explained

One of the most debated topics during the last year was “feminism”. I am writing it in quotes since actually there isn’t even an agreement on what this word precisely means, as proven by the numerous holy wars unleashed from every direction based on personal...

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The international editions of I Love BDSM are out!

The international editions of I Love BDSM are out!

As you may have guessed from the picture above, in the last few months I have been working hard on getting the English and Spanish language editions of my other best-selling BDSM manual published. I Love BDSM is an entry-level guide meant to disabuse anyone newly...

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Sex positivity is broken and it’s up to us to fix it

Sex positivity is broken and it’s up to us to fix it

A few days ago the Italian edition of Vanity Fair asked me to write an article about fetishisms that opened once and for all the proverbial Pandora’s vase. What I observed was, in a pinch, that real fetishists – those whose lives suffer due to the obsession for the...

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How to live the privilege of kink

How to live the privilege of kink

I was recently rebuked for promoting «an expensive idea of sex, only available to exceptionally affluent people». The person who said this is, of course, an idiot. Specifically, he was under the mistaken impression that BDSM can only be experienced in secret as a...

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