The encounter of social conscience and kink
When – 2020- running
Where – Milan
Key features – Female empowerment classes; the safest space for female dominants
One open secret of femdom – short for ‘female domination’ – is that the dominatrixes themselves are generally objectified by their mostly male admirers, who more or less consciously suck all the actual power from the relationship dynamic. The other is that most women are so turned off by the constant onslaught of obnoxious wannabe “slaves” that they choose to only pursue their passion in private, if ever. Therefore, those who advertise their authoritarian preferences end up being mostly professional dominatrixes who are only in for the money – and who often aren’t even that good at what they do.
These were exactly the regrets of a smart lady friend of mine, who wanted to change it all and reclaim the dignity of female domination. Taking a clue from the success of Sadistique, she designed a monthly event to be held at the same club, making it a safe place for women like her to exercise their kinks.
She just needed a hand to fine-tune it all, and when she asked for my help my biggest contribution was to suggest a series of pre-party female empowerment classes held by all the excellent activists and thinkers who strive daily toward that.
I love how Freedomina turned out – and how it is helping change.