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Eros, porn, art and mass media – The Ayzad interview

Eros, porn, art and mass media – The Ayzad interview

I am occasionally quoted in graduation theses touching the topic of alternative sexualities, or which are entirely focused on that subject. Usually it’s just simple excerpts from my books, but sometimes I am asked specific questions or get a full interview. In these...

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Of Star Wars, magic and jaded kinksters

Of Star Wars, magic and jaded kinksters

So the new Star Wars trailer appeared online, and I watched it along with hundreds of millions of people. And, like so many of them, I felt so moved that my eyes welled up with tears – but not as much as it happened with the heart-tugging commercial for the upcoming...

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The most important thing I learned about kink

The most important thing I learned about kink

  Just a couple of hours ago one of my coaching clients asked me what is probably the best question ever: «What is the most important thing you learned in your thirty years of doing BDSM?». A question so good I had to struggle to find a simple answer. I wrote...

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Old gods die hard

Old gods die hard

I normally don’t republish material written by other people here. I’m making an exception because Guy Baldwin’s direct experience allowed him to describe the so-called Old Guard with a competence that, not having lived in the early ’70 USA, I could never match....

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Grey – The peer review

Grey – The peer review

Grey E.L. James Vintage $7.93 576 pages Language: English Isbn: 1101946342 @: buy it online Grey is, as you surely know, the inevitable sequel of Fifty shades of Grey. Shamelessly created to feed a 125-million (not counting those pirated online) copies business, it...

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