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What are we talking about when we talk about BDSM

What are we talking about when we talk about BDSM

Last week’s post about the philosophy of aftercare was remarkably successful on the various social networks, earning lots of enthusiastic comments I am very grateful for. Then there were the criticisms. Fortunately they were not that numerous, but almost all of them...

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Let’s ditch aftercare already (as it is commonly done)

Let’s ditch aftercare already (as it is commonly done)

In a comment on my Facebook page, I was scolded by a reader who remarked how I never really write about aftercare in BDSM. She was right: I don’t – but for a very sensible reason. But before discussing that, let’s get everybody on the same page with a quick...

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Women: the Ownership Manual – Predator 101

Women: the Ownership Manual – Predator 101

Women - The Ownership Manual Logan Alexander American Taboo Press $10.95 230 pages Language: English Isbn: 978-0615942377 @: buy it online One of the biggest BDSM boogeyman is ‘Beware of the predators!’, and justly so. Nobody wants to become the victim of a ruthless...

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