Got issues in your kinky life?

LET'S FIX THEM TOGETHER!

Reclaim your pleasure with the help of a coach

Culture

Eros, porn, art and mass media – The Ayzad interview

Eros, porn, art and mass media – The Ayzad interview

I am occasionally quoted in graduation theses touching the topic of alternative sexualities, or which are entirely focused on that subject. Usually it’s just simple excerpts from my books, but sometimes I am asked specific questions or get a full interview. In these...

read more
The most important thing I learned about kink

The most important thing I learned about kink

  Just a couple of hours ago one of my coaching clients asked me what is probably the best question ever: «What is the most important thing you learned in your thirty years of doing BDSM?». A question so good I had to struggle to find a simple answer. I wrote...

read more
Old gods die hard

Old gods die hard

I normally don’t republish material written by other people here. I’m making an exception because Guy Baldwin’s direct experience allowed him to describe the so-called Old Guard with a competence that, not having lived in the early ’70 USA, I could never match....

read more
Listen to Polari, the secret gay language of old

Listen to Polari, the secret gay language of old

I wrote about Polari in the past, most notably here. In a nutshell, it was a rather complex slang used by British outcasts since the Nineteenth century, including gays before homosexuality was eventually ruled legal in 1967. Today it has almost completely disappeared,...

read more
NEXT

APPEARANCES


20 Sep 2026 h. 15:00-20:00
Freedomina
Nautilus Club, Milano

21 Sep 2026 h. 19:30-23:00
Presentazione Libro Nero del BDSM @Aperikinky
Stufanka, Milano

4 Oct 2026 h. 13:00-20:00
Pranzo letterario @ Quinto Canto
La Villa, Ponte Buggianese (PT)

4 Oct 2026 h. 15:00-20:00
Sadistique
Nautilus Club, Milano
UNUSUAL

SEXOLOGY

In early middle age lesbian relations were condemned between nuns only, with a standard punishment of 38 days on bread and water for mutual masturbation, and 40 days for ‘laying together’

BECOME A

SEXUAL EXPLORER

Improve your life now!

Read my

FREE EBOOKS

Online or downloadable

Click to visit

THE MUSEUM

OF INEXPLICABLE MOMENTS IN THE HISTORY OF SEXUALITY