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Recommended books

This is a constantly updated list of the books I found most useful in my studies. For my international readers’ convenience, I listed the English edition whenever possible.

The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality: An Introduction to Asexuality
An examination of asexuality for those who really don’t get it
Author : Julie S. Decker
Publisher : Carrel Books
Buy it : Amazon
It’s not about the whip
An illuminating article collection about the psychological and relational aspects of BDSM
Author : Sensuous Sadie
Publisher : Trafford Publishing
Buy it : Amazon
Japanese Love Hotels
A serious look at one of the most derided Japanese institutions
Author : Sarah Chaplin
Publisher : Routledge
Buy it : Amazon
Juice
The best manual about electricity play
Author : Uncle Abdul
Publisher : Greenery Press
Buy it : Amazon
A wonderful kaleidoscope of interviews with kinky people worldwide
Author : Race Bannon et al.
Publisher : Unbound Edition Press
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Kiss of the Whip: Explorations in SM
The most complete and authoritative guide about gay BDSM
Author : Jim Prezwalski
Publisher : Leyland Press
Buy it : Amazon
Learning The Ropes
A practical guide to making a BDSM relation work and enjoying it better
Author : Race Bannon
Publisher : Daedalus
Buy it : Amazon
Leather and latex care
How to store, wash, mend, etc. leather and latex clothing
Author : Kelly J. Thibault
Publisher : Daedalus
Buy it : Amazon
Leatherman’s handbook, the
The first and most famous book about gay BDSM
Author : Larry Townsend
Publisher : LT Books
Buy it : Amazon
Leathersex
Extreme, realistic, spiritual and honest. BDSM as seen by the gay Scene
Author : Joseph W. Bean
Publisher : Daedalus
Buy it : Amazon
Let’s Get Cracking!
A guide to using bullwhips by the Guinness world record title holder
Author : Robert Dante
Publisher : Createspace
Buy it : Amazon
Life, leather and the pursuit of happiness
An essay collection about leather culture history
Author : Steve Lenius
Publisher : Nelson Borhek Press
Buy it : Amazon
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