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Recommended books

This is a constantly updated list of the books I found most useful in my studies. For my international readers’ convenience, I listed the English edition whenever possible.

The Surrendered Wife
How to live an idyllic relation through submission. And the author doesn’t even like BDSM
Author : Laura Doyle
Publisher : Fireside
Buy it : Amazon
Techniques of Pleasure
An imperfect and yet insightful socio-political analysis of the BDSM scene
Author : Margot Weiss
Publisher : Duke University Press
Buy it : Amazon
Technology of orgasm, The
The fascinating history of vibrators and other sex toys
Author : Rachel P. Maines
Publisher : Johns Hopkins University Press
Buy it : Amazon
Ties That Bind
A collection of 33 articles originally published on Drummer magazine. Brutally honest
Author : Guy Baldwin
Publisher : Daedalus
Buy it : Amazon
To Love, to Obey, to Serve
The real diary of a full-time slavegirl in the Sixties and Seventies. Enlightening
Author : Viola Johnson
Publisher : Mystic Rose
Buy it : Amazon
Tom of Finland – His life and times
The famous illustrator’s biography, incredibly useful to understand the evolution of the leather Scene
Author : F. Valentine Hooven III
Publisher : St. Martin's Press
Buy it : Amazon
Topping from below
An introduction to extreme eroticism disguised as a detective novel
Author : Laura Reese
Publisher : St. Martin's Press
Buy it : Amazon
Total woman, the
A practical guide to become a “perfect wife” – or a pretty good 24/7 slavegir
Author : Marabel Morgan
Publisher : Pocket
Buy it : Amazon
Training with Miss Abernathy
A slaves’ workbook
Author : Christina Abernathy
Publisher : Greenery Press
Buy it : Amazon
Ultimate guide to kink, The
Collected essays on the many aspects of BDSM
Author : Tristan Taormino (ed.)
Publisher : Cleis Press
Buy it : Amazon
The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex
Everything about the use of strap-on dildos
Author : Karlyn Lotney
Publisher : Cleis Press
Buy it : Amazon
Venus in furs
The book that gave birth to the word “masochism”. Which in fact originally referred to a pathology
Author : Leopold von Sacher-Masoch
Publisher : Various publishers
Buy it : Amazon

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