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Re-educating the BDSM world – Interview with Lily Dupont

Re-educating the BDSM world – Interview with Lily Dupont

So it came to pass that, with one of the worst James Bond themes looping in my head, I accepted an invitation to visit Golden Whip, a curious place in Milan advertised as a – ahem – very well-equipped BDSM-themed photo studio. Surprise: it really is pretty stocked up...

How to live the privilege of kink

How to live the privilege of kink

I was recently rebuked for promoting «an expensive idea of sex, only available to exceptionally affluent people». The person who said this is, of course, an idiot. Specifically, he was under the mistaken impression that BDSM can only be experienced in secret as a...

Chastity play – The complete guide to having fun without pleasure

Chastity play – The complete guide to having fun without pleasure

A long time ago, when this website still was a little creepy-black HTML monster, its most-read article was a sponsored post about male chastity – or anti-erection devices to be precise. I deleted it more than a decade past and I actually had forgotten about its...

Lashes & cuddles: A peculiar evening

Lashes & cuddles: A peculiar evening

This article was originally published by BizzarroBazar: the party he is referring to is Sadistique, the event I have been organizing each month for fifteen years in Milan. My deepest thanks to Ivan for such a fine and thoughtful testimony of a place which is...

Sexbots and giraffes

Sexbots and giraffes

Several weeks ago, while still in full pre-apocalyptic lockdown, I have been invited to participate in a discussion about sexbots. The Privacy Network organizers also called Maurizio Balistreri, a moral philosophy professor and author of a book about the complicated...

This is the original Pride

This is the original Pride

Are you enjoying your local Pride celebrations? I hope you are having a fabulous time - and I'd like to use this opportunity to show you how it all started in the Seventies. The below video is a testimony of the early Gay Pride parades of San Francisco. Oh, how much...

The art of (good) BDSM

The art of (good) BDSM

I have been recently asked – for the millionth time – what BDSM is. So I repeated the answer I reached after decades of study and practice: «extreme eroticism is the art of making yourself vulnerable». It sounds good, it’s elegant and it is even true. But maybe it is...

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