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The art of (good) BDSM

The art of (good) BDSM

I have been recently asked – for the millionth time – what BDSM is. So I repeated the answer I reached after decades of study and practice: «extreme eroticism is the art of making yourself vulnerable». It sounds good, it’s elegant and it is even true. But maybe it is...

BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19

BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19

Talking about this earlier would have been pointless: the shock was still fresh, the information confusing… I don’t know about you, but I needed some time to gather my ideas – and I already know that they are going to probably change again over the next weeks. Still,...

Jeandel’s secret ropes

Jeandel’s secret ropes

A few days ago, bondage teacher La Quarta Corda, whom I often collaborate with, asked me whether I could translate into English a brief article he wrote that «truly is Ayzadian stuff», in his words. In exchange, I got permission to publish it here too… Charles...

There is a new femdom party in town: Freedomina!

There is a new femdom party in town: Freedomina!

Step into any – real or virtual – place where BDSM is discussed, and you can safely bet that in a matter of hours someone will start again on a subject I’ve been seeing people fret about for thirty years at the least: «why it is so difficult to find a dominatrix who...

Gooning – As metaporn as it gets

Gooning – As metaporn as it gets

It cannot be helped. No matter how many studies have proved that pornography – at least the non-sociopathic kind – to be harmless, we all remain victims of the puritanical façade that characterizes contemporary society. Sex keeps being seen as obscene, literally...

Perverse panic – The piqueur legacy

Perverse panic – The piqueur legacy

December 1819: the Sûreté Nationale helmed by Vidocq, the infamous former criminal turned chief detective thanks to the efficacy of his unorthodox techniques, marks another victory. The prostitutes enlisted as baits on the gas-lit boulevards of Paris worked as hoped,...

Snuff: porn for a hopeless world

Snuff: porn for a hopeless world

The last piece of the puzzle – actually a mere formal confirmation of what everyone already had imagined – came a few weeks ago in the form of a forensic report. Twenty-one-years old support teacher and moonlighting camgirl Hope Barden death wasn’t just an...

Travel notes from a sex-positive festival

Travel notes from a sex-positive festival

Crunch time can hit in the most inappropriate occasions, and this is one of them. I am under looming deadlines for so many extra-complex projects right now that I just don’t have the time to write the in-depth articles queuing up in my to-do list… nor a full report...

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