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Artificial intelligence is changing the rules of sex
The time has come to talk about at least one of the thirty-eight elephants in the room. As you may have noticed, we are experiencing the beginning of a new digital revolution. Although we are still dealing with very primitive software at the moment, so-called...
A job without prejudice – Interview with La Vicina di Casa
Whenever I am asked about my job, the reaction often bounces between curiosity and pity. «Do you seriously help people turning their daily lives into the stuff you see in the weirdest types of porn?» they reply while subtitles of ‘Come on, it's not like it's a real...
Sadistique turns of age
In May 2023 Sadistique, one of the BDSM parties I organize every month in Milan, will turn 18 years old. Excluding a few August breaks and the mandatory stop during the peak of the COVID-19 pandemic, there have been just under two hundred editions - enough to deserve...
Beware of the impending obscurantism
I have read quite a few books on sex and sexuality. One of the most interesting remains Julie Peakman's The Pleasure's all Mine, which retraces the history of “deviancies” while uncovering many surprising information - such as the social acceptance of cross-dressing...
The spirituality of kink – Interview with slave toby, aka Mario Bonfanti
Although in many years of research on kinks I have met several... peculiar individuals, one that struck me the most is toby, whose courageous story might be familiar if you follow Italian media. I too got to know him – in his Mario Bonfanti identity - from a newspaper...
The unsettling fascination of MILF Manor
Let’s start with some much-needed context. Amazon Prime Video has a new reality show up, called MILF Manor. ‘MILF’, should you be so naïve as not to know, stands for ‘Mother I’d Like to Fuck’ – and the protagonists indeed are eight women, 44 to 60-years old, in...
Don’t buy it! 2022 Edition – Part 2
Christmas is approaching as I’m writing these lines, and I know the presents I am going to give this year: definitely not the objects you see below, nor those I listed in the first part of the guide, neither in the previous instalments. However, if you are like the...
Don’t buy it! 2022 Edition – Part 1
It is now ten years since my first article where I presented ‘the most deranged and awful sex toys ever’, which was meant just as a funny diversion from all the serious think pieces about unusual sex you can find on this website. However, that post became rather...
The biggest research on sexual fantasies and taboos
A major limitation of atypical sexuality studies is the survey sample - that is, the people who answer the researchers' questions. The first problem is selection, because differently from other fields, one cannot stop people on the street or phone them at random to...
Kink and autism – Interview with John Pendal
Isn’t it amazing when you find out that one of the most remarkable comedians out there turned to be a kink coach like you? What’s even more peculiar is checking out his website… and discover that he also found out to be autistic, which in turn gave him lots of...
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