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Fantasy, reality and BDSM contracts

Fantasy, reality and BDSM contracts

In these days the Italian BDSM Scene is fibrillating due to some very 50 shad-ish news which are confirming what I pointed out in my review of James’ book. Details are still a bit fuzzy thanks to the shining professionalism of Italian media, but the heart of the story...

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How to create an erotic best seller: The Diamond Club

How to create an erotic best seller: The Diamond Club

Ok, sure. We all know Fifty shades of Grey already. But did you read The Diamond Club, the new erotic best seller which immediately rocketed to the lead of the iTunes sales charts? You know, the Patricia Harkins-Bradley book, the one with the elegant and mysterious...

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Classic literature was just a bunch of BDSM stories

Classic literature was just a bunch of BDSM stories

I guess we should have seen it coming. Remember how four years ago the hipster crowd raved about that “literary reimagining” called Pride, prejudice and zombies? That book spawned a whole series of stories injecting popular tropes into stuffy (and copyright-free)...

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VIP Interview With Ayzad – A Sex Scholar!

VIP Interview With Ayzad – A Sex Scholar!

This interview was originally published on Adultsmart Adultsmart - I'd like to thank you for agreeing to do this interview. As mentioned, I actually have come across your website a few times, and one of my favourite things are the posts of "Inexplicable moments...

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The honest guide to finding the master of your dreams

The honest guide to finding the master of your dreams

Writing this article was more complicated than usual – and surely harder than the previous one, in which I suggested erotically submissive men the best strategies to win the heart of a dominatrix. In fact, when I closed it announcing the inevitable integration for...

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#MeToo thinks this time things could really change

#MeToo thinks this time things could really change

Note – I have been conflicted about how to present this article, which was originally written for an Italian audience and references a number of local events. At first I wanted to adapt its content for a global readership, but a number of people suggested to keep it...

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Let’s ditch aftercare already (as it is commonly done)

Let’s ditch aftercare already (as it is commonly done)

In a comment on my Facebook page, I was scolded by a reader who remarked how I never really write about aftercare in BDSM. She was right: I don’t – but for a very sensible reason. But before discussing that, let’s get everybody on the same page with a quick...

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Women: the Ownership Manual – Predator 101

Women: the Ownership Manual – Predator 101

Women - The Ownership Manual Logan Alexander American Taboo Press $10.95 230 pages Language: English Isbn: 978-0615942377 @: buy it online One of the biggest BDSM boogeyman is ‘Beware of the predators!’, and justly so. Nobody wants to become the victim of a ruthless...

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The night the BDSM community just had enough of it

The night the BDSM community just had enough of it

If you are like most persons out there, BDSM is just one among many genres on your favorite “Tube” website, or the punchline to some godawful 50 Shades joke. If you are among the ten percent of people who actually enjoy erotic domination and submission games, it is a...

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