So I followed the hype and ended up on Clubhouse too, with all its mystique of invitations, “voice only” and genuine relationship with people. If we exclude the fact that 99% of the time the “genuine people” are there to discuss how to better monetize the new social...
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BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19
Talking about this earlier would have been pointless: the shock was still fresh, the information confusing… I don’t know about you, but I needed some time to gather my ideas – and I already know that they are going to probably change again over the next weeks. Still,...
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Adriatico News – Interview with Ayzad
This interview was originally published on Adriatico News, introduced by my bio. Interview by Maurizio Donini Good morning Ayzad, why do you define yourself as a reformed journalist?I admit that’s in part a joke. By a much larger part it is true,...
Postcards from Hamburg – The changing world of kink
A traditional Italian saying goes: ‘Spend Christmas with your family, and Easter with whoever you want’. This year, in my case it wasn’t really a matter of who but of where – I enjoyed a great vacation in Hamburg, which is one of my favorite places in the world. Thing...
BDSM – simple tips for not getting burned
It just keeps happening. All the time. Being a kink educator puts you into all sorts of great situations and makes you meet countless truly wonderful people – but then you also get to see the other side of the coin, and probably just the tiniest part of it.That’s...
VIP Interview With Ayzad – A Sex Scholar!
This interview was originally published on Adultsmart Adultsmart - I'd like to thank you for agreeing to do this interview. As mentioned, I actually have come across your website a few times, and one of my favourite things are the posts of "Inexplicable moments...
The failed mad scientist – Why do we do BDSM?
At the end of a recent lecture about BDSM, a sexology Ph.D. student approached me to ask a few in-depth questions, including a true evergreen: «so in the end everything stems from childhood traumas, doesn’t it?»Faced with such a query, many psychologists would answer...
The dark crimes of sadomasochistic cinema
Last weekend I watched Dark Crimes, a mediocre detective movie inspired by a much more interesting true case. The story is set in a terribly dreary Krakow, where a similarly dreary policeman is convinced of having found the culprit of a cold homicide case and goes...
The importance of being Leather – Interview with Fabrizio Paoletti, Mr. Leather Italy 2017
Here in Italy, the word ‘leatherman’ is more likely to be misinterpreted as the name of a talk-show host than associated with the culture that gave rise to the sex positive movement. Learned people might remember Tom of Finland and the aesthetic that stereotyped...
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