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Next – How sexuality changes after pandemics

Next – How sexuality changes after pandemics

So I followed the hype and ended up on Clubhouse too, with all its mystique of invitations, “voice only” and genuine relationship with people. If we exclude the fact that 99% of the time the “genuine people” are there to discuss how to better monetize the new social...

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BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19

BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19

Talking about this earlier would have been pointless: the shock was still fresh, the information confusing… I don’t know about you, but I needed some time to gather my ideas – and I already know that they are going to probably change again over the next weeks. Still,...

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Free ebooks

Here's a bunch of free stuff you can read online or download to enjoy on your favorite device. The downloadable files include versions optimized for Kindle devices, other e-readers and PDF, compatible with anything running Acrobat Reader. Note - Most works are...

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Adriatico News – Interview with Ayzad

Adriatico News – Interview with Ayzad

This interview was originally published on Adriatico News, introduced by my bio.  Interview by Maurizio Donini Good morning Ayzad, why do you define yourself as a reformed journalist?I admit that’s in part a joke. By a much larger part it is true,...

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Postcards from Hamburg – The changing world of kink

Postcards from Hamburg – The changing world of kink

A traditional Italian saying goes: ‘Spend Christmas with your family, and Easter with whoever you want’. This year, in my case it wasn’t really a matter of who but of where – I enjoyed a great vacation in Hamburg, which is one of my favorite places in the world. Thing...

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BDSM – simple tips for not getting burned

BDSM – simple tips for not getting burned

It just keeps happening. All the time. Being a kink educator puts you into all sorts of great situations and makes you meet countless truly wonderful people – but then you also get to see the other side of the coin, and probably just the tiniest part of it.That’s...

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VIP Interview With Ayzad – A Sex Scholar!

VIP Interview With Ayzad – A Sex Scholar!

This interview was originally published on Adultsmart Adultsmart - I'd like to thank you for agreeing to do this interview. As mentioned, I actually have come across your website a few times, and one of my favourite things are the posts of "Inexplicable moments...

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The failed mad scientist – Why do we do BDSM?

The failed mad scientist – Why do we do BDSM?

At the end of a recent lecture about BDSM, a sexology Ph.D. student approached me to ask a few in-depth questions, including a true evergreen: «so in the end everything stems from childhood traumas, doesn’t it?»Faced with such a query, many psychologists would answer...

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The dark crimes of sadomasochistic cinema

The dark crimes of sadomasochistic cinema

Last weekend I watched Dark Crimes, a mediocre detective movie inspired by a much more interesting true case. The story is set in a terribly dreary Krakow, where a similarly dreary policeman is convinced of having found the culprit of a cold homicide case and goes...

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