When I am asked why submitting to pain is fun, I usually provide a quick-and-dirty simplification of the so-called “endorphin ecstasy”, or “subspace”. It goes like this: sexual arousal increases the thresholds for pain and stress. When your organism experiences enough...
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A – smaller than you think – part of my job as an atypical sexualities scholar consists of analyzing the developments in pornography. Porn does provably and clearly reflects the zeitgeist: the Seventies of the century past were characterized by pseudo-intellectual and...
I ended up in a queue with L’Omino, who among his many artistic endeavors also wrote a book called Tinder’s List, about his dating misadventures. While talking, I recalled a very brief chapter I really loved – and that he graciously authorized me to translate and...
This interview was originally published on Deepinox Class 1969, Ayzad is a pioneer in the Italian BDSM scene. Newbies and experts alike stumbled at least once in his first work, BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, originally published in 2004 and...
In many animals, induced fetishism allows for less sexual aggression and longer arousal times, leading to increased fertility.
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