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Sex positivity is broken and it’s up to us to fix it

Sex positivity is broken and it’s up to us to fix it

A few days ago the Italian edition of Vanity Fair asked me to write an article about fetishisms that opened once and for all the proverbial Pandora’s vase. What I observed was, in a pinch, that real fetishists – those whose lives suffer due to the obsession for the...

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Re-educating the BDSM world – Interview with Lily Dupont

Re-educating the BDSM world – Interview with Lily Dupont

So it came to pass that, with one of the worst James Bond themes looping in my head, I accepted an invitation to visit Golden Whip, a curious place in Milan advertised as a – ahem – very well-equipped BDSM-themed photo studio. Surprise: it really is pretty stocked up...

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How to live the privilege of kink

How to live the privilege of kink

I was recently rebuked for promoting «an expensive idea of sex, only available to exceptionally affluent people». The person who said this is, of course, an idiot. Specifically, he was under the mistaken impression that BDSM can only be experienced in secret as a...

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Lashes & cuddles: A peculiar evening

Lashes & cuddles: A peculiar evening

This article was originally published by BizzarroBazar: the party he is referring to is Sadistique, the event I have been organizing each month for fifteen years in Milan. My deepest thanks to Ivan for such a fine and thoughtful testimony of a place which is...

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