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This is why your kinky relationships keep failing

This is why your kinky relationships keep failing

This is the first half of a two-parter article addressing a topic that’s just too complex to be reduced to one single post. This is about the reasons behind failing kinky relationships: the solution will be the subject of an upcoming article. You worked so hard to get...

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Of Star Wars, magic and jaded kinksters

Of Star Wars, magic and jaded kinksters

So the new Star Wars trailer appeared online, and I watched it along with hundreds of millions of people. And, like so many of them, I felt so moved that my eyes welled up with tears – but not as much as it happened with the heart-tugging commercial for the upcoming...

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The most important thing I learned about kink

The most important thing I learned about kink

  Just a couple of hours ago one of my coaching clients asked me what is probably the best question ever: «What is the most important thing you learned in your thirty years of doing BDSM?». A question so good I had to struggle to find a simple answer. I wrote...

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Who does BDSM? Two researches and an interview

Who does BDSM? Two researches and an interview

Science has been occasionally researching the BDSM phenomenon and the people playing erotic domination games since the 1920s, when it was still conflated with pathological sadomasochism. The results varied according to the different definitions of what was surveyed,...

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