Researching the wide, wild world of unusual sexualities involves lots of online searching. I actually love how this exposes me to a plethora of eccentric characters, from genius thinkers and heroic activists to flat-out crank cases. Once or twice a year, however, I...
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Financial domination – Professional notes
During my daily Web search for interesting news I happened on this interesting post about financial domination, written by a particularly smart prodomme. ‘Financial domination’ means – in case you’re wondering – those erotic games where the dominant partner takes...
Sex positivity is broken and it’s up to us to fix it
A few days ago the Italian edition of Vanity Fair asked me to write an article about fetishisms that opened once and for all the proverbial Pandora’s vase. What I observed was, in a pinch, that real fetishists – those whose lives suffer due to the obsession for the...
BDSM, kink and unusual sex in the time of COVID-19
Talking about this earlier would have been pointless: the shock was still fresh, the information confusing… I don’t know about you, but I needed some time to gather my ideas – and I already know that they are going to probably change again over the next weeks. Still,...
A look inside
Take a little peek inside my book BDSM - A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism, now available both in digital and paper format.INDEXAuthor's noteForeword by Dr. Mark GriffithsIntroduction A matter of instincts Previously, in the last 130 years... A bit...
The three open secrets of the kinky scene
«Talking with you I realize how differently we see things» sighed the famous sexologist at the end of a great fusion sushi dinner. «Working with unusual sexualities, I unfortunately notice more and more their pathological aspects, while you still appreciate their...
The limits of kink
Last week my post about taking a stand against so-called “financial domination” caused a veritable stir. Many people applauded it, some deliberately distorted and criticized it in order to protect their – apparently rather unreliable, if one post is enough to endanger...
Who’s afraid of the BDSM doctor? Interview with Daniela Botta
Alternative sexuality subcultures are often represented as alien, mysterious and inaccessible circles. Such mythology however has been far from reality for twenty years at least now: meeting people into the most uncommon disciplines just requires a Google search, and...
VIP Interview With Ayzad – A Sex Scholar!
This interview was originally published on Adultsmart Adultsmart - I'd like to thank you for agreeing to do this interview. As mentioned, I actually have come across your website a few times, and one of my favourite things are the posts of "Inexplicable moments...
Reaching for divinity – Why do dominants do BDSM anyway?
BDSM, like every complex subject, cannot be truly explained unless you disassemble its many, highly varied facets and analyze them separately before trying to make sense of the whole. Such approach makes it easier to understand the real reasons behind some admittedly...
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